what word is más real to you: amor o hate??

amor and hate are diffrent degrees of the same emotion. yes they are oposit yet the same...

Love

love, i amor my family, the boys are over rated and im only a teen but amor because i know someone will amor me when i grow up

Hate. There is always that one person who hates tu and wants to ruin your life, and I'm sure I understand that better than I understand love.
And amor is confusing on it's own, so it's not real to me until I find someone who makes it not-so complicated.