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Should I forgive her??

I was best friends with this girl for six years, from nursery to the end of primary school. We did everything together, were pretty much joined at the hip. But then out of nowhere in the summer holidays she just cut me off completely, refused to talk to me and avoided me for ages until I was forced to take the hint. I was so upset and so angry, but I did eventually get over it. Now all of a sudden she's emailed me saying she's really sorry and knows what she did was wrong and wants to be my friend again. Should I forgive her??
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i think u should kus u were best friends from the get go
bigd1 posted hace más de un año
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nooo way if she was horrid 2 yaa tortazo her and never be her friend again x
ilovethexfacter posted hace más de un año
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dnt forgive her if she was complety mean 2 yaa
ilovethexfacter posted hace más de un año
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i think tu should discuss it with her. Maybe she had a reason for doing that and discuss what she felt like and tell her what yu felt like when she was saying that.
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breebree446 said:
tu should be friends with her. When tu leave this world, regret nothing. At least have closure with her. But let her know how bad she made tu feel. She was your best friend "Once" why can't she be it again. She may have been going through an awkward time.
I hope it works out well for tu two:-)
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tu should be friends with her. When tu leave this world, regret nothing. At least have closure with her. But let her know how bad she made tu feel. She was your best friend "Once" why can't she be it again. She may have been going through an awkward time. I hope it works out well for tu two:-)
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yeaah i agree but if she does it continually then she is not worth feeling upset and angry about
seksyglam posted hace más de un año
lilacool said:
it's up to u!if u need a mate and think that she's gonna be a better person in the future,then u shud!
and if not,u shudn't!
But here's wat i'd do,i'd accept and see if shes any better.if she did the same thing and ignored me again,i'd hate her and never make up with her again! =)hope i helped!i did mi best :-)
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What i would do: don't accept completely yet and discuss it with her ask her why she did it, tell her how she made tu feel when she did that
seksyglam posted hace más de un año
joelemasters said:
Well i guess it really depends...do tu feel like allowing her back into your life?its good that she dicho she was sorry..but i think that tu deserve a reason to as of why she did it.but if tu feel like tu want to give her another chance at a friendship then go for it.
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RedDice99 said:
I think tu should, if she does it a segundo time, then forgive her again. But if she does it for a third time, then don't forgive her culo anymore. I think that's what tu should do. tu agree?
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Anyone else agree?
RedDice99 posted hace más de un año
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I agree with tu on that.i think that some kind of explaination should be dado to why she did it though
joelemasters posted hace más de un año
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That's what I'm sayin' Thanks
RedDice99 posted hace más de un año
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no i think give her 1 chance if she does it again tell her LAST time and if she really wants to be your friend she should'nt do it again. However if she does it 3 times then obviously she is not clever enough to realise she is losing a very nice forgiving friend
seksyglam posted hace más de un año
rebcam13 said:
Yes tu should, because she was probaly trying to fit in with snooty people o something, but frogive her a friendship like that shoul last forever.
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lollipopszx3 said:
I think so. Six years is a very long time and well if she is your best friend she probably has a good reason for avoiding you. I don't think that over one thing that happened for two months should break a friendship that lasted for six years.
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PoddoChan said:
YES tu SHOULD!
Could be a mistake o something that she acted that way, Forget it and just think it's no biggie :)
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xneville_rocksx said:
I think that tu should see how sorry she really is. If she is truely sorry, then tu should become friends again. If she is not, then I do not think that that person deserves to be your friend.
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Jeffersonian said:
NO!!! If she ignored tu completely once, she could do it again. I was in such a friendship, and we were "friends" for a long time like tu and this girl were. Not to mention I also thought this girl was my best friend. When I finally realised I was being used, and I decided to cut off the so called friendship, tu know what she did? She sent me an e-mail saying that it was obviously a friendship that had "outstayed it's welcome" Your case sounds an awful lot like mine.
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tooch said:
I think tu should talk to her and try and find out why she cut tu off all of a sudden.
See her point of view, make your opinion and then see if her reason was good enough for forgiveness.
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