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What do tu think.....?

Of someone who would try to kill themselves because they have no friends and care what others think? Yet they have loving parents, and siblings a perfectly fair and normal life, but still think life isn't worth living for because of a few mean people, and the friends she use to have whom she pushed away. What do tu think??
 katy55 posted hace más de un año
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madening_mahem said:
I think they must have either really low self esteem and/or depression to the point where she's suicidal o she just needs attention despite the fact that she pushes everyone away.
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 I think they must have either really low self esteem and/or depression to the point where she's suicidal o she just needs attention despite the fact that she pushes everyone away.
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katetekiku said:
I believe that whoever she is really shouldn't give a crap what anyone else thinks. She is amazing, and just because she had a few stupid, worthless friends doesn't mean she should go off trying to commit suicide. There's so much in life to amor and live happily for. She needs to make different friends who amor her for who she is, not give up on life for people who are too obsessed with beauty and perfection and popularity. And if tu know who she is, tell her I would be her friend.
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that's not it the friends she pushed away did care about her, and tried to help her but she choosed to stay depressed, and dicho she dosen't need help, and how would tu know if the friend has their own problems, and she dosen't care about the friends problems and says it's nothing comapared to what she's going through. Yes she had a friend, one whho truly care, but she didn't care about the friend...
katy55 posted hace más de un año
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Well, she doesn't need to listen to those few mean people. Who are they, guys o girls? Maybe both? No matter what, she's better than all of them. Ruling over people with fear and low self-esteem is absolutely no way to rule. Teach her about love. amor can conquer over absolutely everything. I used to be bullied so much, but whenever they tried to put me down, I would just say, "I amor tu too!" They never talked to me again. So overall, above everything, she needs to love.
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zanhar1 said:
This person just needs help to see what they have.
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she can't she's way past seeing nor listening
katy55 posted hace más de un año
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That's what psychologists are for.
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noahnstar1616 said:
That sounds like my life.



Anywho...

I would tell them to talk to someone. Like their parents o a counselor.
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SymmaGirl2 said:
I feel bad for her. She sounds like she's sad and lonely, and she needs someone to listen to her. She should go to her family and talk to them. Her parents would undoubtedly understand and try to steer her in the right direction.
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JaseKS said:
No one can truly understand what depressed people go through, even if they're depressed themselves.

I was going through depression last year, for no real reason at all. I had friends, and a loving family. Yet I just felt empty inside. There wasn't any good reason, it's just I felt like nothing would ever change for me.

Perhaps the real reason your friend is depressed isn't actually because she feels she has no friends. She obviously had an UN-obvious reason for pushing tu away.

My consejos is this:

Don't pretend to understand. tu have to try to see the deeper part of why he/she is depressed. While tu may never understand it, think of how tu would like to be talked to if depressed.

Talk to her parents about it. When I was depressed, I kept a notebook with all of my thoughts inside of it, including some rather... vain ones about my parents. Well, my parents found it. I basically thought my life was over. But guess what, I realize now that it was a good thing they found it, because i'm not depressed anymore, and my suicidal thoughts have gone away.

Best of luck.
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kk thanks, but her parents know, and are trying to help her
katy55 posted hace más de un año
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Yea, like I said, it's different with everyone. Just try to talk to her. Wether she admits it o not, she likes the attention. That's probably why she pushes tu away, so she can get attention.
JaseKS posted hace más de un año
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from who, because she's getting it from everyone
katy55 posted hace más de un año
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That's exactly what she wants. tu just need to have a serious talk with her. make her face reality. even if you've already tried that, try again. But I can't give tu all the answers. And she can't tell tu how to fix what shes feeling. All tu can do is not give up on her.
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springely said:
What I think:
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