ok i am really confused! The scene in twilght where edward is playing on the paino siguiente to bella, is that bellas lullaby o is the song the river flows por tu the lullaby?

yes. That lullaby playing in the scene where Edward is playing for Bella, that is the lullaby. It's official name is Bella's Lullaby por Carter Burwell.

River Flows in tu por Yiruma was a fan picked lullaby. That means, before all the cine came out, everyone liked that and wanted the lullaby to resemble that song.

New Moon, there was a completely different style of score music, instrumental pieces. There was no lullaby in New Moon.

Of course the song in the movie. It´s on the soundtrack too.