Let me just start off with they belong with each other!Stefan was Elena First Love,Maybe not Stefan's but it sure was Elena.Just because Damon comes and save the día sometimes dosen't mean they should be with each other ,just because he differnt around Elena dosen't give an reason they should be with eachother.Stefan loves her más then Damon.I understand that Stefan lost his humanity but he gained it back and still amor Elena.Stefan let her make her own decision and supported her because he loved her he was always careful.Damon didn't let make decisions yes maybe it was for the best but he's a little demanding and he's only sweet around her.Stefan is sweet around everyone.Stefan can be más trusted.Stefan dosen't amor Kathrine he probably loved her at one time but she had compelled him and maybe after he thought she was dead maybe he had still loved her but that until he had met Elena.I hope that they stay with each other.That my opinion.Elena dicho it will always be Stefan and I hope that she meant that.And I don't think just because she actually met Damon first dosen't change about how she feels about Stefan.She amor Stefan más then she will ever amor Damon.