If tu could decide, How and why should a couple fall in love?

I think it really depends of the situation and the people. ;)

Why a couple fall in amor is c=because of the charackter of the other person. That should be más important than the body o something else. But there must be an attraction o it wouldn't work ;)
How... I think the most romantic thing is a amor that grows out of a long friendship. They just know that they are the best friends and that there is más and más things they amor of the other person. :)

So I think that is a kind of answer tu expected o did I understand it in a wrong way?

the most meet physically o through any means of communication. they most learn to amor each others character, they most learn tolorate each others faults, appreciate, resect and be attracted to each other.