Sounds to me like your boyfriend's just not that into you... And it sounds like he's taking the coward's way out of the relationship by acting like a major ass so that you can break-up with him instead of having him get his hands dirty...

And your friend is either very patient or he's just not that into you either... And you shouldn't confuse history with love... Sure it's comfortable and safe (to a certain degree) but it's not always that great love...

And I'm not convinced when you say you're in love with both of them... I don't think you're doing that great a job at convincing yourself either... And maybe it is a crush... No one knows that but you...
I think you know which one you would rather be with... You don't need someone else telling you which guy to choose. Just follow your heart.

P.S. At your age you shouldn't even be thinking about hooking up with anyone! But giving my opinion about these things gets me in trouble so do what you want!!

whoa!!! haha you could have talk to me you idiot geesh max is a g** ( know u hate it when i say that) russian and sergio is a stupid skater muffin top!! opinions get over it cuzin cuz u seriously a lil freak you aint in love you just want a casual.... lalala

if you loved one of them, youd know it, believe me. i think that this is just a crush, like isabelle said. personally, i dont believe that you can be in love with two people, youd just know which person is perfect for you. that is based only on personal experience and opinion fyi. i would break up with the boyfriend and stay single for a bit. give you and your bestie some time.

i agree with r-pattz...

hi im tokio i did not post that forum i think it was latinlover even though she replies to the question

it sounds like its at risk of jumping the shark. go with the flow. if you truly like this other person more than your boyfriend, pursue a relationship with him. if not, the n don't. but if your bf keeps being a jerk, dump him. You shouldn't be treated that way. or, be a brat to him and THEN see what he says.

latin lover did this forum not me

ugh such a liar dnt blame this shit on me!!

Girls, calm down. You're both pretty!

It doesn't matter who created the forum. It could end up helping someone else, so enough with the pointing of fingers.