ok well there's this guy i have liked since 4th grade (lets call him bob) and im in 8th and he asked me out about 4 weeks ago. well theres this other girl (lets call her jane) and bob and jane went out for about 3 months in 6th grade. got it so far? ok well when he asked me out 4 weeks ago i said yes and we went out for a day. then the next day my BFF calls me and tells me that on the bus she heard jane saying that bob was going to break up with me so he could go out with jane again. (JERK) well so now things have cooled off between us and we become like best friends again but then 2 days ago he txts me and asks me out again so i say yes...again...(being the idiot i am) and then Jane comes up to me today saying that she is going out with bob and bob didn't want me to know but she felt bad for me and told me. so i get my evil minions (aka: my best friends EVER) to get him in the hallway and break up with him so i can beat him to the punch. well, evil minion #1 writes a VERY mean note (i didn't know it was going to be so mean) and both of my evil minions give it to him...well he starts freaking out saying that he was never going out with Jane when he was going out with me and almost starts crying in the hallway! i freak out and can't decide who to believe and im thinking i might believe Jane cuz Bob has lied to me b4..many times.. so just about 5 minutes ago i txted him saying that i was going to stay broken up with him (im not really the kinda girl who likes to go out with a lot of guys) and he FREAKS!! hes like I WAS TELLING THE TRUTH!! and i believe that but he has hurt me b4 and i dont want to be hurt again! so now i just lost my best friend and he hates me :'( what should i do? plz help me thanx -Allie-