The guy I have a major crush on has a girlfriend now. What should I do?

I have liked him since last summer. He is sweet and smart and cute and popular. He treats girls very well. But, just when I started to think he liked me, and just when I figured that I would have a chance, he gets a girlfriend. I cried to my friend when I found out. Plus, he is in a different grade, so in the school año we never have classes together. I never got a chance to tell him how much I care...IDK what I should do! Help!
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I have a similar case and IDK what to do 2...
Aglaia posted hace más de un año
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me too. to Aglaia
summerlynn1978 posted hace más de un año
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I would just tell him and see what he says o I probally would just wait till they break up I do not even know even though I have to deal with 2 boyfriends but my 1st one had a girlfriend till the día he was new till the 3weeks till school was out then he asked me and I dicho yes so we are still dating but I do not really trust him because it is the summer but yeah I am so sorry if this does not help tu but that is all I had to say cause I do not want to talk about my segundo boyfriend so good luck and like I dicho I am sorry if this do not help tu
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IsabellaAzuria said:
Well try to tell him what tu feel about him, don't try to force anything though. Just do it por a letter, through the internet o cellphone message. If he really likes you, he will tell tu and leave his current gf for tu BUT tu may not insist if he tells tu that he is happy with his girlfriend. In that case anything tu would try to do to wreck his relationship with the girl would make him dislike you. In a case in which he would betray his girlfriend with tu and tell tu he'll leave her soon, don't fall for that. Either he loves tu and leaves her o he just doesn't. I wish tu the best of luck for that. Even if he doesn't like tu this way, I'm sure tu will find someone who will amor you.
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that is a great ansewer and I agree with tu
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xBellaxEwardx21 said:
Ok, My bestfriend has almost the same problem alittle diffrent thoguh. He has a girlfriend there is not to much tu can do about that. tu dont want to break them up even if tu like him alot. The first thing tu want to do is talk to this guy. Tell him that tu do have feelinfgs for him, tell him your willing to wait it out and see how he feels. tu never want to pressur someone cause then they totaly wont like tu back. After tu guys talk i would lay low and give him some el espacio to think. If he comes back and says he has feeling for tu to, then wait it out and see where things go with him and his gf. If he says that he dosnt like you, well let it go. But i know how hard it is to let it go, always keep a foot in. Becuase tu never know, he might be hiding his feelings cause he is scared. Most guys can not express thiuer feelings beacuse even though its hard to belive. Guys have feelings too! lol so jsut see how things go! ZTell him tu ned 2 talk to hima bout it cause apprently tu both like eachother as freiends o as más then friends. tu two need to work things out. Cause mabye he dose like tu but he thinks tu dont like him and thats why he choose to go out with someone else. But i know how hard it can be to talk to a guy. Im a girl too! tu need to talk to him in person ,that is always the best way. It is the hardest but best way. tu ahve to startoff por telling him how tu feel. Then ask him if he ever did have feeling for you. He might lie to ur face, being it is face to face conctat and guys can get pretty....ummmm how do tu say embarssed with that. But tu jsut have to come straight out and tell him how tu feel. He might not resepnd the way tu want him to but he will think your Valiente and amaazing for talking to him in person and not over text o correo electrónico ;) even on the phone will work after tu have worked things out. Add me and tell me how things go :)
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GOOD JOB
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Lunatic said:
Wait until his current relationship finishes, then tell him how tu feel.

DO NOT flirt while he is still with someone. Would tu like it if some girl started flirting with your boyfriend? (A: No. tu wouldn't.)

Obviously, since he is going out with her, he likes her. Even if it makes tu miserable, tu should respect that she makes him happy. (Isn't it just hell?)
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that is right
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LabraLege said:
popular guys will never admire some girl crying for him :) don't bother.
But if tu want to have him tu need to be diffirent from his girlfriend. To get his attention. I don't know, maybe tu should just change your hair color to rosado, rosa (it helped my sister) o do something that he would never dare to do...
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she shouldn't have to change herself for a guy. And she shouldn't have to be better then hia grilfriend. She should just beherself! He is friends with her cause she is herself and apprently he likes her too!
xBellaxEwardx21 posted hace más de un año
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It's not about changing for HIM!
LabraLege posted hace más de un año
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yeah I agree with LabraLege it is not about changing yourself for a guy so just tell him how tu feel and don't do what anyone else tells tu just say what tu believe in and WHO tu believe in
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Eclipse said:
I would ask him if he knows that u like him o if he likes u and hes just tryfing to make u jelous cause u no how ego centeric guys can be but anyway, i would ask him and go from that.
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That is very true 2, guys liek to make girls jelous! ALOT! haha
xBellaxEwardx21 posted hace más de un año
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that is SOOOOOO true because my cousin told my boyfriend that I a dating NOW that I liked him and he dicho I know so we have been going out for about a mes now I think I am not sure it was 3weeks before school was out but I amor him with all my corazón but on the other hand one of my brothers friends asked me out so now I have to deal with both of them BUT I amor my first baby first I don't rally like the other one but sorry I agree with tu Eclipse
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peterslover said:
How long hace did he get his new girlfriend? That can make a difference. If it's been months, then do tu really want to be the one who breaks up a relationship? If it hasn't been that long, then do tu now have the courage to stop him between classes and mention that tu care alot for him? Stay true to yourself-NEVER be something that your not just for a guy, o anyone!! I hope I am of some help. ♥
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 How long hace did he get his new girlfriend? That can make a difference. If it's been months, then do tu really want to be the one who breaks up a relationship? If it hasn't been that long, then do tu now have the courage to stop him between classes and mention that tu care alot for him? Stay true to yourself-NEVER be something that your not just for a guy, o anyone!! I hope I am of some help. ♥
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About 2/3 weeks ago...
DolphinLover97 posted hace más de un año
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well tu could still go for it don't be scared if she gets mad it is ok because. I know someone who is going to go to 7th grade with me siguiente año and she wants to fight me because I am dating my boyfriend and she use to like him so it is ok
22478 posted hace más de un año
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GO FOR IT
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cheery_blossom said:
Wait it out, flirting nonstop (subtly) and catch him on the rebound.
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Why would tu want to just be the rebound chick while he is still getting over his ex?
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no bad idea
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sweet_n_silly said:
That happens to me alot. I'm not sure if this is the best thing to do, but I just wait it out. I flirt a little bit, when his gf isn't around of course, and hope they breakup happily. Beware of the gf though!!!! If she even starts to get suspicious, pull back. other than that, don't try to be the one to throw a wrench in their relationship and be patient. When things go sour, which they most likely will, be ready to catch him. That's when the hook drives the deepest.
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hola me too want to be my fan
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Black_cat_ said:
there are a few ways to deal with this, 1 is 2 tell him how u feel and dont expect anything from him, wait till he breaks up with her and tell him (is risky i did it and it turned out she liked me b4 she got a bf), o hide ur feelings till they go away. all of the choices r hard and most of them dont lead to anything. ur best bet 2 me is 2 just tel him right now how u feel and just see what happenes hun, otherwise ul just be waiting and either hopeing o not knowing
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ok????
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Twili12 said:
Hey, it's okay if this happens to you. You're not alone on this one. Well, what I would do is, just wait until he breaks up with his girlfriend. It depends what age tu are at. Like, if tu are not in high school yet, them breaking up is HIGHLY likely. But, if tu do think this boy may have had o does have feelings for you, he might realize that you're the one he truly likes. I'm sorry if this doesn't help you, but feel free to send me a message.For now, just try and talk to him nicely when ever tu see him. Act lady like, polite, smart, and ask him some questions, don't let yourself do all the talking lol! But I'm sure tu will be okay. Ask him how his relationship is doing. If he points out some of his girlfriends' flaws, (ex. so and so shops too much. So and so talks about herself too much. Etc.) then try to mostrar him that you're not like that. Well, that's a summery about how I would try to go at this situation, but if tu still have some questions, feel free to message me. I'm sorry if this doesn't help. Good luck!
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