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Does every Christian on this spot have a problem with swearing?

I personally try not to swear, however i have friends that swear and they are Christian too. What i really have a problem with is when tu see teenagers on the bus who can't stop swearing just because they think that it's cool! Then there is a side of me that thinks that it's ok to swear, because it's only a word and it's only rude because we make it so...
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 mimifaith posted hace más de un año
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peterslover said:
I admit, I swear when I'm mad. I try not to, but it slips out. But I never blaspheme Almighty's God's name! That is a definite NO-NO!
We Christians need to set an example to the rest of the world.
Let there be amor and goodness coming from our mouths!
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 I admit, I swear when I'm mad. I try not to, but it slips out. But I never blaspheme Almighty's God's name! That is a definite NO-NO! We Christians need to set an example to the rest of the world. Let there be amor and goodness coming from our mouths!
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amor the picture!
mimifaith posted hace más de un año
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me too!!!!!!!!!
JesusLover47803 posted hace más de un año
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Great answer and pic!! :)
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jtdb said:
My dear departed daddy always dicho that if tu have to swear to get a point across, then your point is not worth making. (He was career Army, and I only heard him swear once under his breath when the pain from his cancer was too much for him.)
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I'm so sorry to hear of your Dad's pain, and your loss :`( I totally agree on what your Dad dicho !
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Thanks clarklover. Dad died almost 26 years ago, but he is very much missed.
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mimifaith, thanks for your input. I feel its true más often then not. If tu just listen to some people and their endless stream of profanity, they really have no point to make. it's just noise.
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Cinders said:
I swear constantly. But I try to respect the sensitivities of others. If I know a user, o a friend, has an issue with swearing, I never swear around them, as a courtesy. I know it can make people uncomfortable.

It's true, words only have power if tu give them power. But conversely, if we stripped the power away from all words, then no word would have any meaning. Take the word "God" for example - doesn't that have tremendous power? o "Holy."

A word that used to be powerful - "Love" - is now not as effective as it once was, considering people now say "I amor uva soda!"

So it's not always good to take the power away from words. Words have power for a reason.

EDIT: I should probably note that I'm not Christian, but I answered anyway.
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I'm sorry but the whole words only have power if tu give them power mindset is ridiculous IMO. Would tu start calling black people niggers o jewish people kites as a joke cause it's only rude if they take it personally? Words are here for a reason and each of them have meaning whether we want to admit it o not. No offense to tu at all, I just vehemenently disagree with tu :) To say a word flippantly and disregarding its meaning is ignorant IMO. Would tu tell a loved one they're absolute trash but say tu actually mean they're amazing? Playing words up like they have no root meaning is opening up a can of worms to a world of problems in communication. I know I'm giving extravagant examples, but I hope tu get what I'm saying. I get so annoyed when I hear those stupid songs where black guys are shouting "nigger" every other segundo like it's nothing. They think they're taking the "power" away from the word? Please. They look ignorant, and not to mention politically retarded. The meaning behind the word will always be there whether they wanna play it up as nothing o not. But that's just me :) Swear words are typically used in anger. So to answer the question, lol, I used to swear old school like the F word and so on and so forth. I'll slip a damn o a crap in por accident once and a while but I"m really trying to just give glory to God as we're called to in EVERY situation. So I'm using words más often like "mercy" o "glory" instead of letting myself travel down the road of anger. I'm not saying bottle things up o pretend you're happy. But I think any fellow blazing Christian can back me up when I say there is POWER in rejoicing in your trials; small o big. I won't feed my anger - instead I'll practice holiness whole heartedly and it's amazing how much I've changed over the years and how I rarely get full out pissed off anymore, lol. God is good! So yeah, I'm not about to think throwing swear words for fun [not in anger] is nothing cause their meaning remains the same whether I wanna be ignorant to it o not.
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I think tu misunderstood my statement, and perhaps I wasn't being clear - the power words have have been ascribed to them por people and society. Words are constantly evolving and changing based on usage. For example, words that used to be considered vulgar in the past (such as the word "burp," for instance) are now no longer so offensive. Similarly, words that were never offensive to anyone have now BECOME offensive based on how we, as a society have used and interpreted them (Consider how some people use "gay" as an insult, for example). The power that words have are within the control of the society that uses them - their power DOES lie entirely with how we use and interpret them, and this has been historically true for linguistics since the dawn of language. I'm not trying to imply that words aren't offensive, o don't hold meaning, but meaning - and the power words hold - can and often do change as language and society evolves. That's just simple linquistics. We invent and reinvent words and language CONSTANTLY to apply to the times. Even racial slurs weren't ALWAYS considered slurs. As for the topic at hand - swear words - consider the history of most swear words, which were the language of the lower class, and were dubbed as "vulger" por the upper class who refused to use them. If tu want to talk about the root meanings of words, look up the etymology of some of them. Often they arose out of non-offensive circumstances. And I'm sorry if my simple answer got tu all worked up, but I stand por my statement.
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I think perhaps Cinders was referring to how society in general interpretes words, not how one personally interpretes them. tu dicho that one can decide if getting punched is offensive o not, but it's something completely different. Society has taken power away from some words (i.e. love) and dado negative power to others ("that's so gay"). The reclamation of offensive words is part of how this system works. Just like the LGBTQ community has reclaimed "queer" and "dyke" to a certain extent, many black rappers are trying to reclaim "nigger". Have tu heard of SlutWalk? That's reclamation of the word "slut". It's a community o society infusing a word with a different sort of power. Sometimes it works, sometimes it doesn't.
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Jeffersonian said:
I do swear sometimes, but usually I'm talking to myself where no one else can here. I do know people who swear constantly though, like my dad. He takes it too far though don't tell him that, he'd just yell at me.
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housefrk said:
I don't swear, but I'm pretty...fundamentalistic. I don't get offended when other people do though. I respect that some people don't take the Bible as literally as I do.
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summer448 said:
Last año I Swore All The Time >.<
But Then I Actually Started Going To Curch And lectura My Bible And Now I only Swear When I'm Really Angry

(which is good bc i rarley lose my temper)
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JesusLover47803 said:
i do not have any problem with swearing
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bubbly_making said:
i try not to swear myself but i don't have a problem with other people swearing:)
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E-rock said:
I swear alot.
Ha when i put my pregunta up of how imma change i needed to fix it lol
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gir5136 said:
To be honest I've been doing really good. I had a mouth of a sailor. I'm really tring hard and I think it'll all pay off. It's not cool to swear in fact when someone else looks at someone who swears they quickly put them in to a catagory.
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SouthParkSmart said:
I swear constantly. I have anger issues, and it really helps me release it at an appropriate time and place. What bothers me is, how do tu define swear words? Words are constantly changing, words that used to be considered swear words aren't now, etc. So what exactly does God expect? I don't have the definite answer, and I'd like to meet anyone who does!
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lolibarbie said:
I swear, cuss, french, whatever tu fancy calling it. I honestly don't try to stop it, and I do feel bad about it. I do say, "Oh my God!" And stuff like that, but that habit I am trying to break. I flick people off, I say every curse word in the book. Heck, I say them in different languages! I don't think it's cool, but I get mad and I curse.
I think it's a bad thing and a terrible habit, but a lotta people do it. Which doesn't make it okay, but still. Everyone I know in my grade has cursed at least once. Some to teacher's faces, some to our peer's faces, some to their own parent's.
Do I think swearing will end anytime soon? Heck. No.
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dudu1102-l said:
I do not like swearing

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ArtemisDiana said:
Though it is true that a word only has meaning because we gave it that meaning, it still isn't okay to swear. If its on accident, its okay, but we need to set an example that swearing is not cool and it needs to stop.
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ShadowFan100 said:
Honestly, I don't like hearing o seeing cuss words on the net. But that's their choice--I can't stop them. It's not my place to do that.
Either way, God loves us no matter what. He doesn't exactly amor the basura we do/say, but He ALWAYS loves us.

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POPclogger216 said:
I wil admit, I do say crap and friggin' a little frequestly, but I don't like any major swear words. I usually say 'Holy pre-processed dulce de azúcar, fudge in a can!' o 'I'm SQUEAKING mad!'. o some things me and my friends have started saying because of a book, like Nincompoop, lackwit, o corpus bones. It's a lot funner to make up funny words to use instead of swear words, that in my class, it's awesomer to pull off 'What the over-grilled frenchfries?' than 'What the **** just happened?!'
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1012jackson said:
I got a problem with swearing too. Well actually I don't swear but I be wanting to whenever I'm mad o just have to say it but as a christian, I know I'm not suppose to. I asked my mother and grandmother," do some christians swear?" and one of 'em said," well they're not suppose to." I mean I don't want to feel like I'm disobeying god por saying bad words. My father is a christian and he swears some much I think he thinks that it's ok to swear as long as god forgives about it. I just don't know how bad it is. Even though there bad words, is one still able to swear even though they're Christian? I mean is it ok to swear and still por on god's side and he'll still amor me for who I am? It doesn't madder what I say, is it? As long as I'm still a Christian? I'm so confused about if it's bad o just ok to swear if tu need to.
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Swear words were originally vulgar words. Like the F Word's origins are sexual in origin (speaks about fornication with the King's consent) & the S word means feces so using those words flippantly o in anger is definitely not Christ like. We're called to rejoice in our trials. It's ok to get mad; pretending isn't gonna get us anywhere. But to use crass words is feeding that attitude. It's all about the corazón of the matter. Pray to God to give tu strength and discipline with your words. I've been saying 'Mercy' a lot más and 'Glory' here and there whenever I find myself in a frustrating situation. I'm still struggling wtih crap and damn. Once again, not a Christ like way to speak when tu think about what those words mean. We're gonna slip up; we're human - it's expected. But just like any other sin, as long as you're repentful, you're living the Christian life my friend. Hope that helps.
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KateKicksAss said:
I'm an atheist, but I personally hate swearing.

It's so distasteful and rude, and it makes tu look stupid and uneducated, I mean, it's like, there are tons of things tu could have dicho instead, and tu weren't creative enough to think of a better way to express yourself.

Either way, it's vulgar and rude, and I'm 100% against it, regardless of my beliefs.
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Agreed. Definitely makes tu look mentally delayed & without proper education. Vocabulary is a blessing - we need to respect and explore words for the sake of our own developmental health :P
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Magica said:
I used to swear constantly, back in my early teen years. But back then, I was extremely depressed and just got upset/angry so easily, so it was sort of a way to vent, most of the time. I was also undergoing the phase of trying to figure out who I was and all that. But, about two years ago, it started hitting me that it's sinful and that I at least need to tone it down a bit, so I just stopped saying the más severe words for a while, and slowly quit altogether. I feel like God's opened my eyes over the years and hence, I really don't swear anymore, other than in my head every now and then, but I can't really control that. I do wonder sometimes, though, how bad words can really be. Like a few others already said, we as a society have completely changed the meaning of words in some cases. Like using gay as an insult, as someone previously stated, o using the word "faggot," which really means a bundle of sticks. It's a curious thought, but I do my best to stay away from it as much as I can.

And yes, I do get annoyed when I hear others swearing, unless they're truly trying to get their emotions out. If it's just out of arrogance, it really does irk me.
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Sometimes it isn't about the word's origin, but the use behind the word. For me, if the origin of the word is garbage, stay away from it; if the use of the word is garbage, STAY away from it, lol.
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hottie23 said:
I'm 17 and I don't think it is right for christians to swear. I used to swear all the time when I wasn't going to church much but then I relized it IS wrong. Those words are considered bad and if we need to say them there is a word that means the same thing and is not offensive. I admit it a curse slips out every now and then, like the other día I was with some nonchristian friends who swear constantly and when I almost fell I dicho s**t, tu know the other word for crap, the minuto it came out of my mouth I knew I shouldn't have dicho it.

As long as cursing isn't a habit and when tu say those words tu ask for forgivness sincerley I think that is all that matters.
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