Stefan and Elena

So I know this is supposed to be a seguro haven from hearing about Damon, but I have a rant building up and I dont know where else it will be seguro to post it.
First off, how many people does he have to kill before I stop hearing "poor Damon"? He is the murderer, not the victim, for crying out loud.
Also,( please dont kill me) I think Damon/Ian is oveerrated. I am not trying to bash him. Obviously he is hot, and he is giving a very good performance. The thing is though that some people are actuación like he is the segundo coming o something. Honestly I dont see it.
I amor Stefan. I think Paul is also hot, and is also giving a great performance. I can only hope that Kevin and Julie dont follow in LJ's footsteps and *spoiler alert*do what she did to us in Shadow Souls and Midnight.
ok, rant over.

What Is that awful saying? Opposites attract. Metaphysically speaking, opposites repel. And honestly, were fights and constant bickering anything to base a healthy relationship off of? A healthy relationship, the kind that usually leads to the soul mate kind of love, starts off with a solid friendship/Relationship – the one where tu do everything in your power to protect them and keep them happy, even if it means sacrificing your own happiness, standing por them when no one else will, not because tu feel tu should, but because tu really and truly believe in him/her, and above all, being so connected that at times tu feel like you're one person – when your thoughts mesh so perfectly that tu finish each other's sentences and know what they're thinking without saying any words.
At least that's my opinion on the matter. This is why I ship Stelena:)