The following is how to prepare a woman's mind for incredible sex. If tu do this even halfway right, her mind will prepare her body for an unforgettable night. What do I mean? Your words and actions will affect her mood. Her mood will affect her body. Once tu get her going in the right direction it gets easier as the night goes on. So where do tu start?
Romance is más than a candle lit dinner, rosas and a gift. Romance is an attitude. The secret to being romantic is to bathe a woman's mind with thoughtfulness, fun, tenderness and security, without smothering her o actuación needy. All women have different personalities and expectations so it is up to tu to find out what she desires and what combination of romance works best with her. One woman may find it romantic for tu to plan a night at the ballet while another may find a camping trip to be the most romantic event.
THINGS TO SAY TO A WOMAN
Communication is the key. Talk to your lover like she is your mistress and she will respond as a mistress. Talk to her like she is on old gym bag and she will respond like an old gym bag. Here are some ideas;
1. Compliment her physical appearance, especially her hair, clothes, shoes and perfume.
A woman wears these things for herself but she also wears them for you. Take notice and compliment her on other things. She will feel assured and confident that tu are impressed and she will feel good about herself. Always compliment what she is wearing even when she is dressed very casual. Women are always conscience about their clothes. tu can get a lot of hints from women themselves, as they compliment each other. The más tu compliment a woman on her appearance, her sexiness, her sexual performance, o anything she does, the harder she will try to please you. Take note of what they say. It is all part of preparing her mind for uninhibited sex.
2. Ask her how her día was.
Be careful with this pregunta and use your best judgment because it could open up a can of worms. If she is angry about anything, tu may hear about it after asking, but she may take it as a thoughtful gesture and respond with appreciation. If she doesn't respond with appreciation, it is up to tu to tactfully change the subject ASAP o help her view the situation from a positive viewpoint. tu have más control over her than tu may think. Remember that tu are trying to create an atmosphere that is free for sexual expression.
3. Let her know how tu feel about her and what it’s like to make amor to her.
I know this is hard for some of you, but if tu want better sex and a better sexual response out of your lover tu will at least try the following.
In a sense, tu should talk to her as if she is your mistress. In other words, if sex has become a routine, break the routine. Now some of tu still don't know what I am talking about so let me fill tu in.
4. As tu make amor to her, starting with the first touch to the last, tell her what tu are experiencing. Let her know what it is like to kiss her, touch her, hold her, amor her, look at her, smell her, see her expressions. On the other hand, tell her how good she makes tu feel while she gives tu sexual attention.
5. Build your lover up in front of others; Compliment her, brag about her.
6. Unless the passion is so strong that tu find yourself ripping your clothes off for a quickie, I suggest as a general rule of thumb to saturate your lover with foreplay until she verbally o physically asks, insists o begs tu to make amor to her. In this way tu will know she is ready and she will be much más responsive to lovemaking. Now that tu have reached this stage, start teasing her, as slow as tu can go, inch por inch, a little in, a little out, take as much time as tu can in giving her all you've got. Your objective is to draw her mind into a state of desire, want and need, which leads to satisfying those desires.
7. Hear her.
Most women will let tu know what they want, but the problem is they usually express it with sarcasm o resentment. If a woman says, "…you've never taken me to see a play at the downtown theater…". She is really telling tu that she wants tu to plan a special evening of a nice dinner, a play, then sex all night. So when she sounds like she is complaining, she may be asking for romance.
8. If a woman ever tells tu how good tu look, she is really asking tu to notice her and compliment her.
9. Find out what she expects tu to do for her family during Christmas, birthdays and other special events.
10. Wake up! Many things a woman does o says is the opposite of what she really means.
