well, amor is a feeling we can't help having. its like this big bright hole that tu suddenly find urself falling into.the light is blinding your eyes and tu can't see anything. tu feel like everything has changed. and then your eyes adapt and so do you. tu open your eyes and suddenly this whole new place pops out. everythings the same but different. suddenly the parking lot in front ur school looks like heaven. the stpid lamp post tu used to kick so often looks like an angel, the gods messenger. love, the slight touch of it changes everything.. tu find urself smiling alone, soñar despierto a lot even fantasizing.. it makes tu a better person.. although i'm not saying that amor is a necessary boon for us. all i can say is tu need to drop into the hole to find the light...