Both, so much. But, like I've said you're Jaime, Jaime is you.

Arya
We're both independent and pretty strong and unemotional, aggressive, determined and capable of taking care of ourselves. She's seen a lot of shit but she still wants to get through it. She's really quick to act, which sometimes gets her in trouble.

Jaime
I relate to him in every way possible so I'm just gonna say a few reasons. He's always been hated by basically everyone for reasons he more or less doesn't deserve. He has a low self-esteem but he hides it sometimes behind his constant sarcasm. He's strong and wants to be able to do things himself, to take care of himself. He doesn't want to live up to other people's expectations, only his own. He loves the people he loves and the things he loves, but other than that he isn't too emotional about things.

Can I at least give her 1 vote? :)