2.Gauge your date’s reaction to you. You'll need to do this quickly as the goodbye-kiss window doesn’t stay open for long. If you’re walking your fecha inicial and they don’t let tu get that close to the door, take this physical distancing as a sign that a goodnight kiss isn't such a great idea. If (s)he is eager to get the keys in the door, this too is a bad sign. Other red lights can include clamped lips o a stubborn refusal to make eye contact. However, there’s a good chance that the signs won’t be as obvious as this. To give yourself the advantage in the moment, learn how to read body language so that tu can act fast and avoid any mishaps. Only make a mover if tu feel all is right.
3.Make a “moment.” Remember that in every goodnight kiss scenario, you've got a limited window of opportunity to make your move. Create an "awkward pause" in the conversation. Studies mostrar that people are uncomfortable with gaps of silence in conversation, so fill it with a smile and get ready to mover in for a kiss.
4.Maintain eye contact. If your fecha steadily returns your gaze, consider it an invitation to smooch. If (s)he tries to maintain eye contact but breaks it before anything can happen, chalk it up to nervousness and try to create another “moment” if it isn’t too late.
5.Move in for the kiss. Keep it simple, especially if this is your first kiss with your date. This means no tongue o special moves; just turn your head slightly to the side, lean in slowly, and rock his o her world! tu can place your hand on the small of their neck if tu wish.
If your fecha is enthusiastic, tu may be able to turn the simple smooch into a longer, más involved kiss. However, only do this if tu feel very confident about the cues you’re being given; when in doubt, err on the side of besar too little, as it’s better to leave them wanting más than to make them regret besar tu in the first place.
If tu get the dreaded cheek turn, briefly apologize, laugh it off, and leave with your dignity intact.
6.Repeat if desired, o if tu feel your fecha getting into it. This may lead to being invited inside, but don't count on it
Tips
-If it seems like your fecha is waiting for a while to go inside, kiss her. She wants tu to.
-If tu feel your fecha trying to mover away o say "No," don’t press the issue. Simply ask if (s)he's okay; if the answer is "nothing" o your fecha has to think about it, just say goodnight, as your fecha probably isn’t comfortable enough to admit it’s too soon to kiss. Never force a goodnight kiss on someone.
-Add comentarios such as "Tonight was amazing" o "I hope we can do this again sometime" (and mostrar her that tu mean it) to make him/her feel special.
-When you're walking away, give a little glance back - chances are she'll be watching tu go.
-If tu want to be extra cute tu could even kiss her hand o forehead, but be wary of the forehead kiss as some girls find it patronizing o granddad-like.
Warning
-If your fecha is facing the other way, do not grab his o her head and turn it to face tu for the kiss. This is pushy and unromantic.
-Be wary of giving a goodnight (or first) kiss in front of friends, whether they’re yours o your date’s; this is meant to be a sweet and private moment, so keep it as exclusive as possible.
-Don't just go around besar anyone, anytime! tu may be charged with sexual assault if tu mover too aggressively.
