why such a break between episode 16 and 17? and when is episode 17 airing?

Not sure why there was a big break but Ep. 17 "I Will Follow tu Into The Dark" will air on the 12th of this month. Here is a link to the airing dates left and quick summaries of them.

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Yes episode 17 has aired tonight 12th March!
tu can watch Grey's Anatomy Season 5 Episode 17: "I Will Follow tu Into the Dark" here: link
I hope this respuestas your question!

I hate that big break...it was too long.