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I am so angry at God..

My friend died on Halloween. They're not sure whether o not it was accidental o suicide yet. I am so mad at God for not saving him. He was only 18. His family has already lost 4 family members within the year. I told some people I know that I was mad at God and they dicho I had no right to. He was my friend, and it makes me even más angry that people are telling me I should be going to church más often, and praising a god that killed my friend. I've had a difficult relationship with God for a while and it was just starting to get better, but this is it. I don't think I want to have a relationship with someone who let my friend die, o worse, killed him. I don't know what to do. I am so angry but I'm so alone at the same time. My parents told me to get over it. He didn't deserve to die.
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MarineHolocaust said:
I get being angry. That's understandable. But tu have to consider the fact that God works in mysterious ways. Ways outside of normal human perception. I don't mean to sound insensitive, but tu can't just blame it all on God. People die everyday, and there's always a greater reason. It sounds cliche, but if your friend was Christian, he's in a better place. tu have to trust in that. The human grasp on God is MUCH less than it actually is. No person will ever fully understand the divine. He didn't let him die just to hurt you. That's what tu really need to understand. Your friend was no better and no worse than anyone else. We're all equal in God's eyes, and He loves us all individually. Separation is hard, but remember that your friend is okay. Eventually, tu will be too. tu probably think I'm about to spew some serious bullshit, but this is a time to try to get CLOSER to God. Pray for the strength to get through this all. It'll make tu happier and safer in the long run.
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ShadowFan100 said:
OK I get where ur coming from but lemmie at least tell u that:

God didn't kill ur friend. And like the one above me said, people die everyday so u can't blame God for this. And...I too have a hard time with this, but ur friend really IS seguro where he is.

His body may be gone, but his spirit is with the Lord. And plus, everyone goes through this--separation is tough as crap. I lost my son almost a año hace and I still miss him, but at the same time I know where he is. He's better off there than here.

Also, I know this may not help, but a person can TRY. Sorry if I failed here....
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FLUFFYMUFFIN said:
God gave us everything...and he can take it all away...
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Saying something like that won't help him. That right there will only anger him MORE. If u wanna help, try mostrando más concern than this.
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JennaStone22 said:
It's not God's fault. Sometimes he can't respuestas every ones prayers. :( But I am sorry for your loss. :'( R.I.P
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natalierg said:
No, your friend did not deserve to die. Sometimes God does this to test your faith in Him. I know it's hard but tu need to keep up your relationship with Him. I've been through hard times too, straying far from God, but He always gathers his oveja back together. Pray, read the Bible, go to church, be with fellow Christian friends. I will always pray for you. Good luck and God Bless on your Faith Journey.

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loveofdelena said:
im so sorry for your loss. and i cant even begin to imagine what tu must have felt at the time. but i felt that i had to respond to this. i really wish so many people would stop blaming god for every loss of a loved one, and every bad terrible tragedy that happens in the world today. god is NOT responsible for this. like the person above me stated, people die every single day. its just the natural order of things. and we have to take as it comes. when its your time to go, then its your time to go. and im sorry, but thats just the way it is. so many people place the blame on god for things that he has absolutely no part in. and im sorry, but if we are going to blame god for everything, then we are in serious need of a reality check. we have NO right whatsoever to judge the farther. he created us, not the other way round. god is not responsible for our trangressions, WE ARE!!! we are, when we give into wicked temptations, and selfcentred thoughts and feelings. we give satan a foothold. we allow him to seduce us with power and wealth, and all unrightous thoughts. i dont understand you, tu should be happy. your friend has gone to a much better place. he is with the lord in eternal piece, and there is no other greater gift than that in all the universe. tu must understand. god LOVES us. he would never allow us to pushed más than we could handle. god loes us that much, that he gave his one and only son to die on the cross, so that we could be free of sin, and become one in him once again. so instead of blaming our farther, tu should be grateful to him. if not for him, tu wouldnt be standing here today. once again, im terribly sorry for your loss.
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