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Is it weird being turned on por girls kissing, but being totally grossed out por guys kissing?

Cause like, I'll be thinking of 2 girls besar & think, "that is hot". But when I think of 2 guys kissing, it's like, "That is DISCUSTING!" And when a guy & girl are kissing, it's like, "Awh, cute," unless I don't like the girl o something. But, only get turned on if I think about a guy besar me. Is this weird? Does anyone have these same problems? HELP!
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no its nt, some pple r like tht, cuz a lot of pple thnk tht 2 girls besar is hott, bt 2 guys isnt
Life_sucks posted hace más de un año
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exactly, but still!!! I want it to go away! leave & never come back!
CullenProperty posted hace más de un año
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no its not hell no :P
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Cinders said:
I'd blame either society, o your own sexual attractions. I don't know if you're a lesbian, bisexual, o straight, but society has conditioned us to believe that the only true amor story exists between a man and a woman. That same (patriarchal) society has decided that lesbianas are even más of a sex object than straight women, and ergo, girl-on-girl action o implied action is often used to sell products just as any other kind of sexual objectification. Ergo, society condones the idea that it's OK for women to be gay because it's "hot." However, since straight men should have no interest in other straight men, we're socialized to react with disgust at male displays of affection, and excitement at female displays of affection, regardless of our sexual preferences.

I think that any kind of couple making out is o can be hot. But tu can't fight how tu feel. So long as that doesn't affect how tu judge individuals, it probably is OK to feel that way.

But if it really bothers you, tu can try to condition yourself to be más comfortable around male gay couples. If tu want to do that, tu might think about looking into gay amor stories. There are several movies/television shows that explore gay relationships. It may help tu see gay men besar as less of a purely sexual thing and más of a romantic thing.

tu don't have to find it attractive, but I think it's important to understand that it's as normal as two straight people besar o two lesbianas kissing. amor is amor is love, wherever tu find it.

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Well, thanks for that, but ... umh, but I don't WANT this, I don't WANT to think that girl on girl action is hot and that guy on guy action can be hot too, at times.I just want to be as straight as a pin! Thanks for the recommendations, but I'm afraid if I watch them, I'll get más intreged. I can't have that happen, I just can't. And also, I believe that marriage should be between a man & a woman, ONLY and that gays are discusting; It's just like, playing aorund w/girls is hot, I guess. But, again, thanks.
CullenProperty posted hace más de un año
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OK, well, I'm a little embarassed that I misinterpreted your question, but it sounded like tu were anxious about your premature judgement on gays. My mistake, I wasn't aware you'd already made up your mind about them. But don't tu think you're being a little hypocritical, saying that lesbianas are OK because it's "hot" but gays aren't? I know you're ASHAMED of this feeling, but I think it would be a great opportunity to try and otherstand the lgbt community, rather than write them off as "freaks" o "sinners."
Cinders posted hace más de un año
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Exdactly. See, we had a very nice discussion w/o any feelings hurt ( I hope so, tho ) & yes that waz nice. :)
CullenProperty posted hace más de un año
Hellohoudini said:
Even though I'm straight...I amor watching girl/girl besar as well as guy/guy kissing...there is nothing wrong with either. And though I respect your right to your opinion CullenProperty...to call homesexual attraction o amor "disgusting" and to "refuse" to accept it...especially in this día and age...is alittle closed minded. Let people amor who they want to love...find the beauty in "love" ..dont past judgement...no one has the right to do that but the god they believe in and until tu die and meet your maker...can tu really be sure that God isnt cool o not cool with same sex love? No one can...
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I'm saying this now, I just don't agree w/what tu just stated, sorry.
CullenProperty posted hace más de un año
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I'm not refusing anything & I am not closeminded; I just don't like to see them being damned. If tu belive in something totally and completely differnt please lets just not get into this; religion I'm refurring too, because I am not up for another fight. Right now, lets just do this; Peace, not fighting. Uhm, have tu read the bible? God isn't "cool" for same sex amor & if tu think that whatver, I know whats right, please lets do not get into it.
CullenProperty posted hace más de un año
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okay
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K5-HOWL said:
This kinda what I mean when amor can happen no matter who its between. Just like some Homosexual people think staright people are gross

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Just trying to point out some facts not bash on religon
K5-HOWL posted hace más de un año
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Watch dah videos!!!!!!!!!
K5-HOWL posted hace más de un año
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i didn't watch it.... but..
CullenProperty posted hace más de un año
girl12345 said:
well, i amor besar girls too, but not any girl, i get turned on when i kiss a girl, there's only one girl that know's this, and she's the one i make out, im exactly like you, i think its grose and disgusting when guys make out but i find it sexy and hot when girls do, and i find it cute when a girl and a boy kiss, but for me, its sucha turn on on girls, your not the only girl that feels this way, i do too and plenty of other girls do too!
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boytoy_84 said:
I don't get turned on por ether one, I get turned on when men are actuación sexy and especially dancing around just in their prendas íntimas, ropa interior o speedos. :P
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 I don't get turned on por ether one, I get turned on when men are actuación sexy and especially dancing around just in their prendas íntimas, ropa interior o speedos. :P
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eeeeeee lol maybe a Chip 'n Dales Girls Night Out would suit your fancy! XD
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Sinna_Hime_chan said:
Wow, this is an OLD question... but someone must have recently answered because I saw this in my updates, and I thought, "Hmmmm that seems like a good question. It seems like something I would want to answer." So here I am! XD lol & I will answer anyway.

I do not think it is a "problem." I am a straight female, one of those 99.9%-ers o 100% percenters, and I know many are bi o lean heavier one way. I am not so much "turned on" por females besar as I can certainly see the sex appeal for a guy from his perspective o understand that and I am like you, the opposite reaction to guys besar for some reason- for me personally-my body. I think females are "hot o sexy" in that they are pretty, but two guys - I am like you, not my cuppa tea, and go "Noooooo-" and if I see someone, a hetro-couple kissing, I am not "cute" but I might smile o think it is nice o "ahhh~" o "wow" (if steamy) o think "nothing" at all most likely, because, like the pregunta maker, I am only turned on when I think of myself being kissed o besar ( por a male/mybf)~ so I feel similar is the gist of what I am trying to say. I don't see it as a problem. I am also aware (for me) what is lust o lustful and what is not (in what turns me on and the difference between lust and maybe female (idk?) -just that preference type in things that turn me on, whereas some femmes really like yaoi - I do not. So I don't know, but I think it is just our chemistry, I think. In all my gay friends, both guys and female lesbians, I do see a difference in the female lesbianas and my gay guy friends. Maybe it is just me???
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 Wow, this is an OLD question... but someone must have recently answered because I saw this in my updates, and I thought, "Hmmmm that seems like a good question. It seems like something I would want to answer." So here I am! XD lol & I will answer anyway. I do not think it is a "problem." I am a straight female, one of those 99.9%-ers o 100% percenters, and I know many are bi o lean heavier one way. I am not so much "turned on" por females besar as I can certainly see the sex appeal for a guy from his perspective o understand that and I am like you, the opposite reaction to guys besar for some reason- for me personally-my body. I think females are "hot o sexy" in that they are pretty, but two guys - I am like you, not my cuppa tea, and go "Noooooo-" and if I see someone, a hetro-couple kissing, I am not "cute" but I might smile o think it is nice o "ahhh~" o "wow" (if steamy) o think "nothing" at all most likely, because, like the pregunta maker, I am only turned on when I think of myself being kissed o besar ( por a male/mybf)~ so I feel similar is the gist of what I am trying to say. I don't see it as a problem. I am also aware (for me) what is lust o lustful and what is not (in what turns me on and the difference between lust and maybe female (idk?) -just that preference type in things that turn me on, whereas some femmes really like yaoi - I do not. So I don't know, but I think it is just our chemistry, I think. In all my gay friends, both guys and female lesbians, I do see a difference in the female lesbianas and my gay guy friends. Maybe it is just me???
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AmyRosefan4eva said:
To me it's not, but then again, I'm a guy. Lesbian stuff is a turn on for me, but two guys? Freaks me out a bit.
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uploaded900 said:
It is weird. I'm a straight girl and when I see 2 guys besar its hot. When I see girls kissing, I'm like "WTF is this! Eww!" Unless its lesbians, then I respect it.
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