Enemies and haters can be annoying and their comentarios and insults can upset you. Learn how to deal with it...
1)If tu don’t know why they hate you, ask them calmly and nicely. If they are nasty to tu o start swearing o being violent, walk away and don’t bother trying to talk to them again until they have calmed down o until they talk to tu nicely. Some people can be dado segundo chances to realize that tu aren’t really a bad person and they have nothing to hate tu for. But some people just won’t like tu in life, so don’t waste your time fretting about why they don’t like you.
2)Ignore whatever they say. They are probably only insulting tu because they are jealous. No matter what they say, it can’t offend tu unless tu let it. Just remember when they say something nasty to you, they want tu to react. So pretend tu didn’t hear it. Don’t acknowledge them o give them any attention for it. If they continue insulting tu o bothering tu in any way, walk away from them. Don’t look at them o talk to them; just walk away. After a few times of tu doing this they will probably get bored and stop picking on.
3)Surround yourself with friends and people who like tu for who tu are. These people will make tu feel más confident about yourself and tu should realize that it doesn’t matter what haters say as long as tu have good friends por your side.
4)If they start being violent towards tu o continue offending tu o upsetting you, and ignoring them is not helping, tell them that their behavior is upsetting tu and tell them that they have no reason for it. If they still carry on, tu will have to learn to stop being upset por their comentarios and realize that whatever they say is probably a lie.
5)If tu know why they hate you, be mature and apologize if it was your fault. Holding grudges against people and not apologizing can sometimes seem like the reasonable thing to do but in the end, if its your fault, only tu can fix it. Apologize to them seriously, and if they don’t accept it, there isn’t much más tu can do than ignore them.
6)Show them respect as tu mostrar to your friends; when they need help, help them. This will mostrar them that tu are friendly and kind. Give them compliments and try not to sound hurtful, don't judge them if they say bad stuff back. And if these things don't work out, just tell your friends and they can cool tu down, and take a deep breath and try again. Never be offended, but if did, try not to loose control. "Control" is important, when things gets messed up, control yourself, o make excuses to get out of the situation instead of loosing your mind trying to settle things.
7)If tu follow the last piece of consejos with people who are purportedly hostile, tu are a fool and only contribute to them taking advantage of your kindness. Do not give enemies one ounce of your energy. por helping anyone, especially enemies, tu may be giving something to someone who doesn't "deserve" it karmically. Your best bet is to ground out their energy (return it to Earth/heaven/God/etc) and forget about it. Don't worry- they will get exactly what they deserve that way. ;-)
8)Never try to hurt them when they are being mean.
When tu talk to them, think before tu talk.
They are only ememies and only do that to gain attention.
Never be scared of them.
Don't back talk to them.
1)If tu don’t know why they hate you, ask them calmly and nicely. If they are nasty to tu o start swearing o being violent, walk away and don’t bother trying to talk to them again until they have calmed down o until they talk to tu nicely. Some people can be dado segundo chances to realize that tu aren’t really a bad person and they have nothing to hate tu for. But some people just won’t like tu in life, so don’t waste your time fretting about why they don’t like you.
2)Ignore whatever they say. They are probably only insulting tu because they are jealous. No matter what they say, it can’t offend tu unless tu let it. Just remember when they say something nasty to you, they want tu to react. So pretend tu didn’t hear it. Don’t acknowledge them o give them any attention for it. If they continue insulting tu o bothering tu in any way, walk away from them. Don’t look at them o talk to them; just walk away. After a few times of tu doing this they will probably get bored and stop picking on.
3)Surround yourself with friends and people who like tu for who tu are. These people will make tu feel más confident about yourself and tu should realize that it doesn’t matter what haters say as long as tu have good friends por your side.
4)If they start being violent towards tu o continue offending tu o upsetting you, and ignoring them is not helping, tell them that their behavior is upsetting tu and tell them that they have no reason for it. If they still carry on, tu will have to learn to stop being upset por their comentarios and realize that whatever they say is probably a lie.
5)If tu know why they hate you, be mature and apologize if it was your fault. Holding grudges against people and not apologizing can sometimes seem like the reasonable thing to do but in the end, if its your fault, only tu can fix it. Apologize to them seriously, and if they don’t accept it, there isn’t much más tu can do than ignore them.
6)Show them respect as tu mostrar to your friends; when they need help, help them. This will mostrar them that tu are friendly and kind. Give them compliments and try not to sound hurtful, don't judge them if they say bad stuff back. And if these things don't work out, just tell your friends and they can cool tu down, and take a deep breath and try again. Never be offended, but if did, try not to loose control. "Control" is important, when things gets messed up, control yourself, o make excuses to get out of the situation instead of loosing your mind trying to settle things.
7)If tu follow the last piece of consejos with people who are purportedly hostile, tu are a fool and only contribute to them taking advantage of your kindness. Do not give enemies one ounce of your energy. por helping anyone, especially enemies, tu may be giving something to someone who doesn't "deserve" it karmically. Your best bet is to ground out their energy (return it to Earth/heaven/God/etc) and forget about it. Don't worry- they will get exactly what they deserve that way. ;-)
8)Never try to hurt them when they are being mean.
When tu talk to them, think before tu talk.
They are only ememies and only do that to gain attention.
Never be scared of them.
Don't back talk to them.
