The main problem that guys face when trying to kiss a girl is knowing if they are ready to kiss them. Get the timing wrong, and things will turn really awkward. Get it right, and well... tu will know. Here's how tu can increase your odds. But, if tu know they are ready then things will go well
1)Make her comfortable por making a joke, and don't laugh too loudly at your own jokes o tu will look like a tool and might turn her off, girls don't always respond sexually to confidence, but an outgoing girl will - humor is an attractive quality. For instance, it's probably a good time to kiss that girl when you're watching a movie where the mad moments are happening. It'll ease the tension and you'll be able to laugh it off after, but only if she likes the movie.
2) Use a nice, romantic spot. Girls will think it's amazingly romantic when the first kiss is at sunset, an empty grassy meadow under the stars, a deck on a lake at night, on the beach, on a paddle barco at a friends pond at night, o a private camp fire. Usually early dawn o midnight scenes can be considered lovely. But tu don't have to. Just make sure tu are sincere in what tu are doing.
3) Be bold. Go for it! Lean in for the kiss. Lean in slowly!! Don't be too fast about it. While tu get closer, slowly close your eyes and stop leaning about half an inch away from your girl's lips. If she's ready, she'll lean in and kiss you! Try a peck for your first kiss, then mover on to longer, más passionate kisses when you're ready for it. Say sweet things in between kisses, it also allows tu time to breathe.
4) Use the other hand to stroke her hair o neck. But leave your hand on the back of her neck o hold her in place, girls may feel loved and cared for and like it. For them, it tingles a bit and makes them feel warm inside.
5) Find what tu were talking about before and keep going if you're not besar her anymore. Don't act strange, she might get the wrong impression. She remembers tu how tu were before the kiss, and tu want that not to change too much.
6) Remain just a little touchy-feely after the kiss. tu don't want to leave her not wanting more, o she might think tu dislike her o even want to break up. Stroke her back, her cheek, the back of her neck. Comb through her hair a bit.
7) Girls do a lot of talking about the first kiss. Where will it be? What kind of kiss will it be? If tu are young, and the girl is hyper, then tu don't want to disappoint her with just a kiss on the cheek. kiss her on the lips. Draw back, smile at her. If she is responding positively, then go in again, this time using the mouth, opening the lips, and maybe adding some tongue action. Make sure the first kiss is in a special place - never in the cine (this may depend on the person). On a hill, on the stage in a deserted theatre, por a fuente in a secluded park.
8) If she doesn't talk about the first kiss a ton, she might be waiting for the right time. Most guys never know the right time, so here's the hints:
She will lean towards you, maybe even lay her head on your shoulder.
She won't pull away when tu hold her hand.
She'll smile when tu say her name in a loving and compasionate tone.
She'll ask to meet tu places.
She might seem a bit clingy at times.
She won't make tu go away when she's upset with you. If anything, she'll want to hear tu say "I amor you," o "I'm so sorry," o "Can tu forgive me?"
She will start conversations, make a joke, do things that guys do but like a girl.
9) Don't be afraid to catch it. Sometimes, tu just never know when it's the right time. Girls can be very closed at times, so she may not be giving tu all the warning signs that she wants to be kissed. Sometimes, signals that usually mean she isn't open to physical contact (such as crossed arms, looking away, etc.) may mean that she is just nervous (especially if she's never kissed a guy, o maybe not kissed many guys, so she is inexperienced) and isn't sure what to do, o how to make the first move. If this is what she is doing, tu will simply have to rely on your instincts. If she is doing any of the following, then tu will simply have to use your male instincts, and be the hunter. If she is doing any of the signs below, then go in for the kill!
Glancing at you, and quickly looking away when tu see her
Blushing when tu talk to her
If she is biting her lip
10) If this this doesn't work, and she seems surprised o embarrased that tu kissed her (in an uncomfortable way) then don't freak out. Everyone messes up, and it's not the end of the world if this one girl doesn't like you. It gave tu some experience on dealing with shy girls. tu shouldn't feel bad, o ashamed of yourself for besar her. Instead, feel proud that tu braved up to a shy girl and tried your best! There's always más pescado in the sea. If she is unusally mean o rude and rants on to all of her friends about how tu "kissed her" and laughs as tu walk by, look her straight in the eye, roll your eyes and say "Grow up". tu don't want to be with someone like that anyway. In 9 out of 10 cases however, she will simply mover on. She may like it (if she was nervous) and tu can ask her out again on another night! Good luck!
1)Make her comfortable por making a joke, and don't laugh too loudly at your own jokes o tu will look like a tool and might turn her off, girls don't always respond sexually to confidence, but an outgoing girl will - humor is an attractive quality. For instance, it's probably a good time to kiss that girl when you're watching a movie where the mad moments are happening. It'll ease the tension and you'll be able to laugh it off after, but only if she likes the movie.
2) Use a nice, romantic spot. Girls will think it's amazingly romantic when the first kiss is at sunset, an empty grassy meadow under the stars, a deck on a lake at night, on the beach, on a paddle barco at a friends pond at night, o a private camp fire. Usually early dawn o midnight scenes can be considered lovely. But tu don't have to. Just make sure tu are sincere in what tu are doing.
3) Be bold. Go for it! Lean in for the kiss. Lean in slowly!! Don't be too fast about it. While tu get closer, slowly close your eyes and stop leaning about half an inch away from your girl's lips. If she's ready, she'll lean in and kiss you! Try a peck for your first kiss, then mover on to longer, más passionate kisses when you're ready for it. Say sweet things in between kisses, it also allows tu time to breathe.
4) Use the other hand to stroke her hair o neck. But leave your hand on the back of her neck o hold her in place, girls may feel loved and cared for and like it. For them, it tingles a bit and makes them feel warm inside.
5) Find what tu were talking about before and keep going if you're not besar her anymore. Don't act strange, she might get the wrong impression. She remembers tu how tu were before the kiss, and tu want that not to change too much.
6) Remain just a little touchy-feely after the kiss. tu don't want to leave her not wanting more, o she might think tu dislike her o even want to break up. Stroke her back, her cheek, the back of her neck. Comb through her hair a bit.
7) Girls do a lot of talking about the first kiss. Where will it be? What kind of kiss will it be? If tu are young, and the girl is hyper, then tu don't want to disappoint her with just a kiss on the cheek. kiss her on the lips. Draw back, smile at her. If she is responding positively, then go in again, this time using the mouth, opening the lips, and maybe adding some tongue action. Make sure the first kiss is in a special place - never in the cine (this may depend on the person). On a hill, on the stage in a deserted theatre, por a fuente in a secluded park.
8) If she doesn't talk about the first kiss a ton, she might be waiting for the right time. Most guys never know the right time, so here's the hints:
She will lean towards you, maybe even lay her head on your shoulder.
She won't pull away when tu hold her hand.
She'll smile when tu say her name in a loving and compasionate tone.
She'll ask to meet tu places.
She might seem a bit clingy at times.
She won't make tu go away when she's upset with you. If anything, she'll want to hear tu say "I amor you," o "I'm so sorry," o "Can tu forgive me?"
She will start conversations, make a joke, do things that guys do but like a girl.
9) Don't be afraid to catch it. Sometimes, tu just never know when it's the right time. Girls can be very closed at times, so she may not be giving tu all the warning signs that she wants to be kissed. Sometimes, signals that usually mean she isn't open to physical contact (such as crossed arms, looking away, etc.) may mean that she is just nervous (especially if she's never kissed a guy, o maybe not kissed many guys, so she is inexperienced) and isn't sure what to do, o how to make the first move. If this is what she is doing, tu will simply have to rely on your instincts. If she is doing any of the following, then tu will simply have to use your male instincts, and be the hunter. If she is doing any of the signs below, then go in for the kill!
Glancing at you, and quickly looking away when tu see her
Blushing when tu talk to her
If she is biting her lip
10) If this this doesn't work, and she seems surprised o embarrased that tu kissed her (in an uncomfortable way) then don't freak out. Everyone messes up, and it's not the end of the world if this one girl doesn't like you. It gave tu some experience on dealing with shy girls. tu shouldn't feel bad, o ashamed of yourself for besar her. Instead, feel proud that tu braved up to a shy girl and tried your best! There's always más pescado in the sea. If she is unusally mean o rude and rants on to all of her friends about how tu "kissed her" and laughs as tu walk by, look her straight in the eye, roll your eyes and say "Grow up". tu don't want to be with someone like that anyway. In 9 out of 10 cases however, she will simply mover on. She may like it (if she was nervous) and tu can ask her out again on another night! Good luck!
