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Yep, this pretty much is exactly what its says. I have a friend ,my best friend, who's been through so much with me, and we're still going strong. A couple of months back, we started going to the town square, which was filled with people our other friends knew, so they all took to us really quickly. So he starts dating one o two girls, but they don't last, and he starts dating a girl, who i just think is nice enough, funny, mellow, cool, what have you. So they date,and he has had sooo many relationships, but this is por far his strongest yet, and i'm jsut happy for him at this point. But, suddenly, I start noticing her más andmore, starting to think, 'Wow, shes really cool. Why don't I hang about with her more?'
The, jsut for no reason, I started getting flustered and weary around her, and then It hit me-I had developed a crush on my best friends girlfriend. I felt horrible. I mean, this is my best friend, but, this girl just suddenly means so much to me.A small part of me wants to tear them apart, and ruin everything for me, one part wants to suffer in scilence, one partwnats to confront them both, and another part just wants to get on with life. They can't all be right.And It just makes me wanna scream. i've started making up lame excuses to avoid spending time with them as a couple because whever he talks about her, I want to hit him, but, luckily the rational part of me jsut wants to be happy for them. Still, It's tearing me up inside.

This page has gotta have people who have had this happen to them before, so, does anyone have any advice? ANYTHING at all would be greatly appreciated! :)

Thanks.
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posted by PonygirlCurtis7
here are some tips i have found in numerous places, videos, books, etc. and some from experience.

1: smile
you have to smile. its tells the guys that youre interested and tu want to talk to him

2: make eye-contact
eye-contact is very important. like #1, it tells him youre interested

3: ask him advice
guys amor it when tu ask them consejos and confide in them. they amor that tu value their opinion

4: touch your neck, lips, ear, etc.
while youre talkin to him tu should touch your neck o tu lips o ear o somethin (dont ask me why, i found this in a video XD. but if u understand why, good for you!)...
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posted by quaintcomfort
The Positives

1) He laughs at some of the things I say.

2) I always catch him staring at me, o his friends looking at me whenever I'm walking in the halls.

3) He blushes whenever I talk to him.

4) My friend has told me that whenever I talk to him he seems sort of 'smug' about it and he's always watching me in class.

5) He's a paino player and singer, and whenever he's canto he's always looking in my direction.

6) I used to sit near him all the time in English. He sat diagonal to me (meaning he sat siguiente to the girl who sat behind me) and he'd always lounge back and have this sort of casual...
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posted by Vampire-Girl013
so ive known him sense i was 2 and we always been close but he moved and comes back and everything changed. were less like brother and sister and más flirtatious.i mean hes always been protective and nice,sweet but now the feelings r different. idk what to do. but these feelings r controlling my life.Should i tell him o should i just keep it to myself?? should i drop hints?? should i push the feelings away?? what if he dosent like me back and it ruins r friendship?? to many pregunta and not enough answers. PLEASE HELP!!!!