Okay, I’m a big Twilight fan. I’ve got all the books. I’ve got all the movies. I’ve been to Forks and La Push for Twilight tourism. I have two Twilight T-shirts, one with the Cullen family crest and one with a werewolf presumably supposed to be Jacob. I’m planning to redo my room in a gótico vampire theme based on a Twilight room in a motel in Forks. On the other hand, I’ve gotten into the subject of feminism and feminist analysis, and I’ve been lectura all these anti-Twilight artículos at link talking about how abusive Edward and Jacob are, and I’ve had a bit of a conflict between my appreciation for both subjects. At this point, I’ve arrived at a compromise between them. Twilight is at its corazón a sexual fantasía with two pretty boys to objectify. The boys behave in a way that is hot to fantasize about (for some people’s tastes), but would be bad if done in real life. This is fine as long as it is kept at the level of an unrealistic fantasy, but it is a problem when Edward and/or Jacob are perceived as perfect boyfriends because they technically are abusive.
Twilight is often derisively referred to as porn for tweens, and I think this is fairly accurate but shouldn’t be thought of in a bad way for that. I believe Stephenie Meyer has dicho that she wrote Twilight for adults and that her publisher marketed it to the teenage readership, probably because of its sexual theme but lack of explicit sex. Even without its explicit sex, I think Twilight is very much a sexual fantasía tying themes of domination and submission common to vampire romances to the sexually-charged teenage years when the most basic exploration of one’s sexuality is powerful. This understandably speaks to the readership of girls as well as women who remember those years. It is porn in a way not commonly performed in such a way that it appeals to a young female mind, which I think is a good thing. Sexuality should be explored safely, and lectura fictional literature (and escritura fanfiction) is a seguro way to play with fantasies. I think it’s in the interest of feminism that girls are able to do this and the success of Twilight in a way speaks to the progress of society. It’s when Twilight leaves the level of fantasía and girls start considering Edward and Jacob good boyfriends that there’s a problem, though, because when tu come right down to it they are abusive.
Edward is very abusive and to a lesser extent Jacob is too. Edward has an unhealthy controlling personality and Jacob seems to think it’s okay to force a kiss if it’s for the sake of romance. I could go into greater detail, but it’s already been done por people más dedicated than me. Check out “link” por Cinders and the video series “link” por fromthisgirl. As a Twilight fan, I have a negative reaction to strong words like “abusive” and “stalker”, but it’s important to analyze the book from a neutral perspective and detach personal feelings from the issue. Saying Edward’s a stalker isn’t the same as saying “…and you’re evil for liking him!” Now, some antis do make it personal, saying stuff like “Edward sucks, Twilight sucks, and should hate it too if tu don’t want to suck”, and that’s not cool… but not all antis are just rude haters. There is a point to what the feminism-aligned antis are saying when they criticize the characters, which should be recognized.
When Twihards take the fantasía of Edward and make it into a standard por which to judge boys to see if they’re boyfriend material, that’s a problem. Edward is not good boyfriend material. Edward is a fantasía based on classic sexist notions of romantic ideals, mixed with vampire rape fantasies. This is something that works on the level of fantasía but is disastrous in real life. When tu start wanting a boy to stalk tu in real life, that’s a problem. When tu start excusing what amounts to sexual assault, that’s a problem. Feminism has fought to let women be treated as equals, to be shown the same level of respect as men, and not just treated as submissive nonpersons. Do not dishonor feminists por embracing a lack of self-respect! Boys who treat their girlfriends like they’re people are good people and should be respected as good (or potentially good) boyfriend material, not disregarded because they don’t live up to sexist ideals embodied in an abusive, stalking caricature used as the object of desire in an unrealistic sexual fantasy.
It’s important to compartmentalize Edward as only the object of desire in a sexual fantasía in which he is honored, and to understand that in real life he would be a horrible person who link. Within the context of Twilight as a fantasy, it’s fine to amor Edward as the strong, controlling character he is. Some of us—whether due to socialization o bodily makeup—just like the idea of a partner being this dominating figure. Bella has very little characterization, so she’s an easy vessel to fill and imagine oneself being dominated por this powerful man who has the ability to kill you, who wants to on some level, but never will because he likes you. That’s very attractive to a lot of women and is fine in the level of fantasy. In real life, Edward would be like the villain of a Lifetime original movie, which creep me out so bad.
A lot of feminist antis go a step farther than I do and say that the fantasizing about Edward is problematic in and of itself, and that women shouldn’t have submissive fantasies at all, but I disagree. Some of us are just wired to enjoy those kinds of fantasies. The stigmatization of women who embrace their submissive side within the context of a fantasy is undeserved and seems like classic discriminatory grouping behavior where only the in-group are truly respected. The difference between embracing submission in a fantastical situation and in real life is the element of control. tu always have control over a fantasía and can just put the book down if you’re not into it. It’s the people who surrender control who are in real trouble and are the real victims. Note that I don’t mean people in healthy BDSM (bondage and discipline, domination and submission, sadism and masochism; I’m aware that’s too many letters) relationships, because in them the submissive person has a safeword to stop all activity whereas unhealthy, abusive relationships give the submissive person no control over the relationship. Twilight can be considered as like a BDSM fantasía where the fan can safeword out por putting down the book, but Bella has no safeword because she’s a character in the fantasía and not a real person.
To conclude, Edward and Jacob are dominating objects of desire in what amounts to a sexual fantasy, and shouldn’t be considered good role modelos for real life boyfriends. In real life, they would be the worst kinds of people with whom to get involved in a serious romantic relationship. However, if tu can keep them compartmentalized as only sex objects in an unrealistic fantasy, there’s nothing wrong with loving them. vampiros and hombres lobo have long been metaphors for dark expression of sexuality, and Twilight is just one más in a long series of supernatural rape fantasies. Exploration of sexuality, even dark and dangerous, is perfectly healthy as long as the dangerous stuff is kept at the level of fantasía and tu always keep the control tu deserve as a human being.
Twilight is often derisively referred to as porn for tweens, and I think this is fairly accurate but shouldn’t be thought of in a bad way for that. I believe Stephenie Meyer has dicho that she wrote Twilight for adults and that her publisher marketed it to the teenage readership, probably because of its sexual theme but lack of explicit sex. Even without its explicit sex, I think Twilight is very much a sexual fantasía tying themes of domination and submission common to vampire romances to the sexually-charged teenage years when the most basic exploration of one’s sexuality is powerful. This understandably speaks to the readership of girls as well as women who remember those years. It is porn in a way not commonly performed in such a way that it appeals to a young female mind, which I think is a good thing. Sexuality should be explored safely, and lectura fictional literature (and escritura fanfiction) is a seguro way to play with fantasies. I think it’s in the interest of feminism that girls are able to do this and the success of Twilight in a way speaks to the progress of society. It’s when Twilight leaves the level of fantasía and girls start considering Edward and Jacob good boyfriends that there’s a problem, though, because when tu come right down to it they are abusive.
Edward is very abusive and to a lesser extent Jacob is too. Edward has an unhealthy controlling personality and Jacob seems to think it’s okay to force a kiss if it’s for the sake of romance. I could go into greater detail, but it’s already been done por people más dedicated than me. Check out “link” por Cinders and the video series “link” por fromthisgirl. As a Twilight fan, I have a negative reaction to strong words like “abusive” and “stalker”, but it’s important to analyze the book from a neutral perspective and detach personal feelings from the issue. Saying Edward’s a stalker isn’t the same as saying “…and you’re evil for liking him!” Now, some antis do make it personal, saying stuff like “Edward sucks, Twilight sucks, and should hate it too if tu don’t want to suck”, and that’s not cool… but not all antis are just rude haters. There is a point to what the feminism-aligned antis are saying when they criticize the characters, which should be recognized.
When Twihards take the fantasía of Edward and make it into a standard por which to judge boys to see if they’re boyfriend material, that’s a problem. Edward is not good boyfriend material. Edward is a fantasía based on classic sexist notions of romantic ideals, mixed with vampire rape fantasies. This is something that works on the level of fantasía but is disastrous in real life. When tu start wanting a boy to stalk tu in real life, that’s a problem. When tu start excusing what amounts to sexual assault, that’s a problem. Feminism has fought to let women be treated as equals, to be shown the same level of respect as men, and not just treated as submissive nonpersons. Do not dishonor feminists por embracing a lack of self-respect! Boys who treat their girlfriends like they’re people are good people and should be respected as good (or potentially good) boyfriend material, not disregarded because they don’t live up to sexist ideals embodied in an abusive, stalking caricature used as the object of desire in an unrealistic sexual fantasy.
It’s important to compartmentalize Edward as only the object of desire in a sexual fantasía in which he is honored, and to understand that in real life he would be a horrible person who link. Within the context of Twilight as a fantasy, it’s fine to amor Edward as the strong, controlling character he is. Some of us—whether due to socialization o bodily makeup—just like the idea of a partner being this dominating figure. Bella has very little characterization, so she’s an easy vessel to fill and imagine oneself being dominated por this powerful man who has the ability to kill you, who wants to on some level, but never will because he likes you. That’s very attractive to a lot of women and is fine in the level of fantasy. In real life, Edward would be like the villain of a Lifetime original movie, which creep me out so bad.
A lot of feminist antis go a step farther than I do and say that the fantasizing about Edward is problematic in and of itself, and that women shouldn’t have submissive fantasies at all, but I disagree. Some of us are just wired to enjoy those kinds of fantasies. The stigmatization of women who embrace their submissive side within the context of a fantasy is undeserved and seems like classic discriminatory grouping behavior where only the in-group are truly respected. The difference between embracing submission in a fantastical situation and in real life is the element of control. tu always have control over a fantasía and can just put the book down if you’re not into it. It’s the people who surrender control who are in real trouble and are the real victims. Note that I don’t mean people in healthy BDSM (bondage and discipline, domination and submission, sadism and masochism; I’m aware that’s too many letters) relationships, because in them the submissive person has a safeword to stop all activity whereas unhealthy, abusive relationships give the submissive person no control over the relationship. Twilight can be considered as like a BDSM fantasía where the fan can safeword out por putting down the book, but Bella has no safeword because she’s a character in the fantasía and not a real person.
To conclude, Edward and Jacob are dominating objects of desire in what amounts to a sexual fantasy, and shouldn’t be considered good role modelos for real life boyfriends. In real life, they would be the worst kinds of people with whom to get involved in a serious romantic relationship. However, if tu can keep them compartmentalized as only sex objects in an unrealistic fantasy, there’s nothing wrong with loving them. vampiros and hombres lobo have long been metaphors for dark expression of sexuality, and Twilight is just one más in a long series of supernatural rape fantasies. Exploration of sexuality, even dark and dangerous, is perfectly healthy as long as the dangerous stuff is kept at the level of fantasía and tu always keep the control tu deserve as a human being.
*You need bigger hight heels
*I Put all your new clothes on the roof
*Jasper told me that tu are not good at sex
*you would be perfect for the role of the dwarf in Snow White
*Jasper told me he thinks I'm hot
*Esme told me that I'm her favorito! daughter
*Your power is useless, the visions change
*I think Jane is taller than you
*Your hair looks like a escoba
*Bella hates you
*What was your human mother name?
*I donated your new clothes to Jacob and Sam
*Edward told me that when Charlie first saw tu he thought that tu were Bella's 8 years old cousin
*Last night Emmett and I had sex in your car and broke it