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Is talking behind other persons/individuals' backs basically considered a big no-no overall?

If so, is it basically because sooner o later they are going to AND will find out what the others have dicho about them behind their backs?
 Mike88Al27 posted hace más de un año
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TheLefteris24 said:
Are tu asking only because of the consequences that might be brought if tu get find out o you're questioning the morality of those actions as well regardless of the outcome?
I believe it depends. Personally, if I happen to have an issue with people and talk about it with third parties, that means I have no problem saying it to the their faces as well. Otherwise, I won't bring it up at all as I don't see the need. Pretty much, it is all about the intent. What exactly are tu saying behind someone's back? First of all, did tu already attempted to talk to him/her and found it pointless? Are tu worried about dicho person and doing it because tu care? Are tu that afraid to confront him/her whether that fear of yours has basis o not? Is it because tu want to harm that person por creating unnecessary drama? When it comes to the last one, yes, it is considered a big no-no and shows a pretty negative side to your Character. Besides, if you're too caught up with others you'll never mover adelante, hacia adelante yourself !!!!
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 Are tu asking only because of the consequences that might be brought if tu get find out o you're questioning the morality of those actions as well regardless of the outcome? I believe it depends. Personally, if I happen to have an issue with people and talk about it with third parties, that means I have no problem saying it to the their faces as well. Otherwise, I won't bring it up at all as I don't see the need. Pretty much, it is all about the intent. What exactly are tu saying behind someone's back? First of all, did tu already attempted to talk to him/her and found it pointless? Are tu worried about dicho person and doing it because tu care? Are tu that afraid to confront him/her whether that fear of yours has basis o not? Is it because tu want to harm that person por creating unnecessary drama? When it comes to the last one, yes, it is considered a big no-no and shows a pretty negative side to your Character. Besides, if you're too caught up with others you'll never mover adelante, hacia adelante yourself !!!!
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BlindBandit92 posted hace más de un año
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"Are tu that afraid to confront him/her whether that fear of yours has basis o not? " I think that this is super important and isn't something a lot of people remember!
zanhar1 posted hace más de un año
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^ Indeed. There can be various factors that people put aside. Consideration is needed !!!!
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Riku114 said:
Its because doing so can easily create false rumors and/or perpetuate an issue to be something much bigger than what it originally was when it could have easily been cut short por talking to the person directly / being honest.

Plus it makes tu super fake and, as tu said, they are likely going to find out sooner o later.
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Mauserfan1910 said:
I've beat people up for that shit. If tu don't have the balls to say it to their face, don't say it at all
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Also if tu don't have anything nice to say, don't say anything at all
Mike88Al27 posted hace más de un año
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I disagree with that one. Sometimes tu have to tell a perra she's a bitch. Just do it to her face
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zanhar1 said:
I think it depends; if someone dicho something really rude to tu I think tu have the right to go inicial and vent about it to someone else. But when the gossip starts then there's a problem o if the person did literally nothing to you.

Of course I prefer to either talk if out with the person o say it to their face. If not I usually just keep it to myself.

As far as it getting back to the person, let me tell tu a thing; this asshole took an articulo of mine from this site and trash talked it on a website I never even heard of. I found that shit and tu better believe I ripped that person a new one in a response articulo and then linked them to it.

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BlindBandit92 said:
Case por case thing honestly. Generally speaking if tu do that tu can seem fake but there are sometimes it's valid and/or useful for the situation. But being honest with tu if there's a shithead. I am not going to care if I talk behind them o in front of them. Hell I'll talk on the side of them just to be funny. Unless I know doing such will have an effect I do not want. I wouldn't care in reference to a shithead. Otherwise if you're talking behind someone's back to be a shithead for no other reason than just being a shithead it is definitely a problem.
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I'll talk on the side of them lmao. I like that.
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Nick3600 said:
it's completely ok if theyre deaf
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