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Why do tu think this is?

Alright, so tu know when someone loses a loved one o has some other misfortune befall on them others will say "I will pray for you" o "they're in a better place"? Well I have seen some people actually get mad when people say these things. Now I get that those people don't believe in religion, of course, and that's fine, everyone should believe, and not believe, in whatever they want. What I don't get is why they get so angry over someone trying to comfort them in their own way. Why do tu think that is?
 legend_of_roxas posted hace más de un año
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Canada24 said:
Because people are assholes
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posted hace más de un año 
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xD
Servamp posted hace más de un año
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True and to the point.
EgoMouse posted hace más de un año
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Thanks for saying so i didn't have to.
BlindBandit92 posted hace más de un año
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Also this !!!!
TheLefteris24 posted hace más de un año
EgoMouse said:
Because people tend to get offended por everything. They focus más on the words than the motives, especially if it conflicts with their beliefs.
I've gotten through that weird religion hating phase (but I guess hate is a strong word here, just generally not liking it).
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Servamp said:
-I guess some people feel this way because if tu accept sympathy, then tu must acknowledge that tu have a loss. So if tu want to be in denial, sympathy is the last thing tu want to accept.
- Sympathy can feel like pity and nobody wants to be pitied.
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^ This !!!!
TheLefteris24 posted hace más de un año
CokeTheUmbreon said:
Some people are assholes.
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Zeppie said:
Mainly because many people choose to be offended por almost anything.

But in their defense, the only reason why I'd imagine they'd get mad at that response is because they're not in a stable place of mind, they lost someone they loved and some people get angry and hostile while they're grieving, others are más passive and quiet.

But if they do react that way, just leave it be and give them space. Grief can change people so wait for them to handle it in their time.
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