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I know this is weird but can someone give me advice? pleeze its urgent

my bff self harms and she has told me not to tell anyone which has put me in an awkward position as i want to do something i have no idea what to do pleeze help i have no idea what to do thank tu xx
 kayleebabee posted hace más de un año
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jedigal1990 said:
wow this is a really urgent situation i would definitly talk to her about it and encourage her to tell someone because she really needs help if she doesn't tell her that tu will tell someone because tu care about her and then tell her parents o even a guidence counciler o tu can tell your mom and have her talk to your friends mom one thing is for sure tu can't stay quite your friend really needs help if tu tell she might be mad but at least shell get the help she needs and eventually she will see that the only reason tu told was because tu cared about her. But i would talk to her about it and let her know yu will tell if she doesn't that way it doesn't seem like tu completly went against her at least tu told her what tu were going to do. I really hope this helps and wish tu and your friend the best of luck
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sweet_n_silly said:
self harm is a dangerous and seriuos issue. it's fabulous that u want to stay true to ur promise not to tell, but it's also good that u realized that u need to do something. normally I wouldn't advise this, but u need to tell someome who can help, like ur parents o her parents. if u don't, this could become much más serious and u should try ur best to prevent it from getting worse any way u can.
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she just txted me saying she wants to kill herself i am going to tell her mum i think i just dont want to fall out with her as she is in a really difficult place at the minuto her dad was a soldier and he died last mes she dicho she wants tro registrarse him
kayleebabee posted hace más de un año
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wow i can really see that shes in a tough place but tu got to know that beng a good friend means letting people know so she gets the help she needs tell her that tu are there for her and don't want to go back on your promise but tu care for her and want to makes sure shes okay she might be mad for a little while but shell get over it and shell be okay
jedigal1990 posted hace más de un año
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oh wow! I had a friend commit suicide last month. make sure her mom knows and, even though she might be mad for a little, at least she'll be alive
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Free_Spirit said:
Wow this is tricky. But i think tu should tell someone. It would be better that she be mad at tu than her killing herself, cause this is what she will eventually end up doing. But if tu want to tu could talk to her first and ask why she is doing? What is provoking her? My sister is friends with the daughter of the school counsellor and one día i had to go to their house after school. And he was talking to us and told us that one día a kid came and dicho they were going to kill himself. He had to breach his promise not to tell anyone this kids secret. I asked him why and he dicho sometimes to protect people tu have to tell their secrets. So iwould suggest, first tu go to someone tu trust and they can help tu with the situation.
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befferz said:
Right now the most important thing tu can do is be there for her, when i had that problem, i really counted on my friends, i needed them to understand. don't tell her she's stupid. but don't tell her it's right. she needs to know that your there for her. when she looks worried, o on the edge of harming herself. just walk over to her speak to her in private, and talk it out. Ask her if there is anything tu can do. if she gets angry at you, take it. when it's over she'll understand. just look out for her. she will get over it. all she needs right now is a friend to help her along the way
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