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coriann said:
i don't know if to call it self confidence o apathy, but lately i've found myself a lot less shy than in anterior situations, maybe it was because i took a break from school for a while idk.... i think the only way sometimes to get rid of your fears is to face them sorry :( i think cutiepie has some good points, tu should learn to accept yourself for tu tu are, stop short changing yourself, lol, it's a process and something that doesn't happen over night, im sorry but i don't know if tu will be able to get rid of your shyness fast enough to get with this boy (you might) if tu just hold your breath and have a go at it XD, that works for a lot of people the first thing tu need to do is self acceptance acknowledge you're shy, and that's okay, lots of people are shy, maybe tu can even use that so your advantage in some weird way :P and then tu go on accepting yourself and your flaws and maybe even pointing out some good stuff about yourself, until tu start to realize what a special and awesome person tu are then step two, which tu can do while tu are doing step one is GO OUT! face your fears :) tu don't have to do anything drastic that tu think tu r not ready for, but just go out more, and then be around people more, open up to your friends, when tu open up to people tu start to realize the deep dark things that tu thought were so horrible about tu aren't really that bad then, when tu are confident about who tu are as a person tu would be más confident that people will like that person :) thus making tu más confident about yourself so that tu can make that siguiente move, even if your nerves still kill tu sometimes, lol hey, at least this is my theory, but i'm a quack, my plans never work, so be careful if tu wanna listen to me :P
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