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How do tu relieve shyness

I really need help with this. I'm incredibly shy around certain people and I'm trying to talk to this guy but I just can't. Every time I get close to him my stomach gets wiggly and I feel sick. PLEASE PLEASE HELP ME :(
 nikkiluvzu posted hace más de un año
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cutiepie0310 said:
I have the same problem,but I can give tu some suggestions.

1.breath deeply a couple times before talking to the person

2.Imagine the person as someone tu are comfortable talking to(like a sister,mom,or friend)

3.Make sure tu DONT get so nervous, tu end up actuación like your a crazy person.

4.Have más of a layed back attitude.

and the last part might not help about what your talking about,but I'm not sure

Best consejos is to let loose and allow your imperfections to shine through.

Often, we tend to hesitate and hold ourselves back because we fear that our efforts will not be perfect. We hate to allow others to think we are weak.

But tu are not weak por mostrando your flaws. Heck, tu are
stronger than most!

Allowing your flaws to be seen simply means that tu are asserting a belief in your strengths.

hope this helps :)
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i like this :)
coriann posted hace más de un año
prophet69 said:
Shyness decreases over time as tu are más social and be más social around people. Face your fears and try to say something to people to decrease your shyness, it would eventually disappear as youget older. Also, try to smile más often, people will thinkyour confident and will likely talk to you. The más social tu are, the más your shyness will go away.
I
used to be very shy when I was 13. Have mostly gotten over it :)
This helped me a lot now I am crazy in public
1.Start por talking más to your family until tu aren't shy around them
2. then do that with friends
3. in small groups in public
that worked for me.
Help lot of deserving people. Try to help those who are depressed, suppressed and oppressed in life. Thus tu will gain over a period of time lot of experience and knowledge and finally one día tu will be fully conversant and familiar.
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I do all of those things but they don't help :(
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KaulitZfan said:
i have no cule i have the seme problem
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adultswimperson said:
tu have to stand out and stop being afraid of being shy and speak up if tu want to be heard.
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Makeupdiva said:
I have the same problem. I would really like to know how to get rid of it. It's the one thing in my life that is stopping me from getting what I want.
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cherry_Dropzx said:
i have this issue to but i guess tu just need to get used to talking to this guy, um if tu have other people around tu lke your friends maybe that will help coz when i liked this guy i found it easier when my bestie was near me i dunno.....good luck :D
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coriann said:
i don't know if to call it self confidence o apathy, but lately i've found myself a lot less shy than in anterior situations, maybe it was because i took a break from school for a while idk....

i think the only way sometimes to get rid of your fears is to face them sorry :( i think cutiepie has some good points, tu should learn to accept yourself for tu tu are, stop short changing yourself, lol, it's a process and something that doesn't happen over night, im sorry but i don't know if tu will be able to get rid of your shyness fast enough to get with this boy (you might) if tu just hold your breath and have a go at it XD, that works for a lot of people

the first thing tu need to do is self acceptance acknowledge you're shy, and that's okay, lots of people are shy, maybe tu can even use that so your advantage in some weird way :P

and then tu go on accepting yourself and your flaws and maybe even pointing out some good stuff about yourself, until tu start to realize what a special and awesome person tu are

then step two, which tu can do while tu are doing step one is GO OUT! face your fears :) tu don't have to do anything drastic that tu think tu r not ready for, but just go out more, and then be around people more, open up to your friends, when tu open up to people tu start to realize the deep dark things that tu thought were so horrible about tu aren't really that bad

then, when tu are confident about who tu are as a person tu would be más confident that people will like that person :) thus making tu más confident about yourself so that tu can make that siguiente move, even if your nerves still kill tu sometimes, lol

hey, at least this is my theory, but i'm a quack, my plans never work, so be careful if tu wanna listen to me :P
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thank tu everybody for your help I really appreciate the helpfulness and I'll get back to tu on my shyness status :)
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