Most of the time it's the boy, but in a way it's sort of mixed. Delena it's Damon and with Steferine it's Katherine, but with Forwood and Beremy I am always having constant conflicts about if I like the guy or the girl more. I love both. Since Delena is my OTP, I'll go with the guy for now.

Damon <33

Yes Damon.

Delena -> Damon
Forwood -> Tyler
Beremy -> Jeremy
Jalaric -> Alaric
Isolaric -> Alaric
Steferine -> Katherine

Bamon - Damon
Forwood - Tyler
Stelena - Stefan
Stefeine - Stefan
Jalaric - Alaric

Delena --> Damon
Steferine --> Katherine

Other couples I like but don't ship:
Beremy --> Bonnie
Steroline --> Caroline
Catt --> Caroline

Catt - Caroline♥

i'm addicted to bad guys, but Damon is the only real one for me :)
Delena - Damon ( my awwwww)
Beremy - Jeremy
Anna/Jeremy - tied
Jenna, Alaric - Ric
Forwood - Caroline
Steferine - Kath
Staroline - Caroline

Eh, I like the girls better. They're more cohesive and everything isn't necessarily reliant upon some plan to stave off dooms day. They tend to keep it real. Speaking of which, where's Bonnie?

Stelena-stefen
Delena-damon
beremy-jeremy
forwood-caroline
jenna/alaric-alaric

pretty much half and half for me.

Love all of the boys but not the middle one