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do tu think i made the right choice? (PLEASE HELP!)

I had sex a few times now but im only 15.me and my boyfriend do use protection, but i feel unsure i think sex is fun and cheers me up. i do want to have sex más but i need others opinions.
 cuteinblack6 posted hace más de un año
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Jillywinkles said:
Personally I feel 15 is a little young, but each person is different, and if tu are comfortable with it then más power to you. And tu don't really need others' opinions. Sex is your decision, and it's your life. Don't let others influence you, just be mature about it and use your own judgement.

Keep using protection and you'll be fine.
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I think this is very good advice. I just want to add a question-- Are tu asking for other people's opinion because tu don't know if you're ready, to validate a choice you've already made, o for some other reason? It's always great to ask yourself WHY tu ask preguntas (particularly about choices that have already been made) just as much asking the question. But as far as I'm concerned, if you're safe, have regular checkups, and take care of yourself, then you'll be OK. I recommend visiting a gynocologist. o go to the clinic at your high school-- this is a confidential matter and your parents won't find out, if you're worried about that.
Cinders posted hace más de un año
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seguro sex a the time is good
JailynnLuv posted hace más de un año
nafela said:
in this situation it dosnt matter about peoples opinions. it only matters if tu think your ready for it and if tu are then go for it. just make sure your doing it the right way and make sure your doing it with someone tu amor and trust. make sure that this person isnt pressuring tu to do enything tu dont want to do. dont do it just because tu think your making this person happy do it because its what tu want.
i hope my consejos will help tc
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loves-oth said:
Like the comentarios above, i think tu are in an okay situation.
i was 15 when i lost my virginity, and i was in a relationship.
if tu are unsure, speak to your boyfriend about it.
why do tu feel unsure? that's the main question. sex is perfectly natural, and as long as tu are using contraception and are sure tu are ready, there is no need to feel tu are doing wrong.

tu should maybe speak to your doctor o gp about going on the contraceptive pill? it may give tu más reassurance, if that is what tu are looking for.
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kuhleau said:
15 is young but por no means very young. If tu are enjoying it and have a genuine relationship with your partner then keep going at your pace.

The pill is convenient but has a lot of flaws. It does not protect 100%. It does not protect from STDs.

Go on the pill por all means but stay with the condoms until your boyfriend at the time is a mature adult and not a pin head pumped dick sex addict like all guys under 25.

Be careful over the siguiente 10 years, but enjoy yourself aswell
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johnhetfield666 said:
i am 16 but still a virgin so idk
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iluvtigers said:
well if tu are unsure if tu want sex, then dont do it for a little while and see how tu feel. also see how your boyfriend reacts. if hes fine with not having sex then stay with him and have sex again when youre ready. if he keeps pressuring tu to have sex, then he doesnt appreciate tu for who tu are, he just wants to score.
remember this wont be the ONLY decent guy, so take your personal matters no matter how slow tu want. along the road tu will meet a few nice guys who will respect your decisions.
just remember its YOUR body and YOUR life and that it will hurt tu if tu get pregnant más than him.
one step at a time :) good luck
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cA_iNen11 said:
15 is to0 y0ung 4 sex,.bUt we aRe n0w in the mOderN worLd where sex is verY normaL fOr uS,.bUt it dePends oN y0u if y0u reaLLy wanted t0o,.jUst be cArefuL cOz i s0me oF mY friEnds g0t pRegnAnt aT 16 aNd n0w thEy hAve goT bAbiEs tO tAkecare,.g0odLuck!!
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Orange_Crush said:
I had sex for the first time when I was 13 so if your comfortable with it it's fine I mean mine was with a girl....., but I find girls to be más understanding then guys, but thats just me
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omg 13 is young!!!
stephmfan215 posted hace más de un año
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im 13 and am still afraid to have a bf, but im a nervous wreck so thats just me
wolfgirl1217 posted hace más de un año
shomill said:
I think you're a little young, and if you're doing it for "fun" and not for love, then you're doing it for the wrong reason.
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If tu just want fun, try masturbating.
shomill posted hace más de un año
BlackAngel369 said:
if ur questioning if u should o not is a sign to me that u should stop! Sex needs to b 100% ok with tu and if ur bf don't lik tht, then u have learned somthing bout who he is. im 17 and i had just resistly asked myself the same pregunta (and i don't have a bf to amor when i do it) so its up to u, just remeber ur body ur rules.
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stephmfan215 said:
i think that its okay wat ur doing. im 15 and ive had it... just lik once for real and then another kinda half way. if u think that this is ok and ur boyfriend thinks it is 2 and ur being seguro then its fine.

and it is funnn!! ;)
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ShadowFangrl said:
:) Do what tu feel is right. BUT, think, H.E.L.P.

How would this affect your life?
Exciting? If you're happy, the go for it.
Like it o not, listen to other peoples opinions.
Parents, would they agree to what tu are doing?

I have a sex problem myself ^^'

I petend to have sex with a picture of Shadow the Hedgehog in bed, but that's my problem.
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