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sexo y sexualidad Pregunta

I'm lost!

Ok, first of all, I know there are a lot of similar questions, but I need help!

I'm a girl, I'm 14, I'm virgin and my parents are totaly oposite to lesbians, bis, etc...

I really like men! But I like girls too! Last week I took a ducha, ducha de with my friend, and it turned me on.

What should I do?
Is it normal?
Am I bi?
Will this last forever?
Should I talk about it with my parents?
With my friends?
Will they still be my friends?
 I'm lost!
 Andressa_Weld posted hace más de un año
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sexo y sexualidad Respuestas

Cinders said:
No one, on this website o off of it, can tell tu what your sexuality is. That would be like someone telling tu what your dreams are, o what your opinions are. You're right when tu say similar preguntas have been asked before, so I'm going to refer tu to some of my respuestas to those to avoid repeating myself.

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As far as your friends go - if they refuse to be friends with tu because of who tu are, they were never your friends in the first place. It may sound cliche, but that's because it's true.

Family is más complicated. I'd like to believe that parents would amor their child no matter what, but that doesn't believe that they will accept their child's sexuality, and not try to change their child. Since you're still exploring your own sexuality, I wouldn't talk to your parents about it just yet, if they make tu anxious.

My best consejos would be to seek out a school counselor o a trusted friend and discuss this matter with that person. School counselors are bound por confidentiality, and will not tell your parents o anyone about what tu say to them. The only time they are aloud to break this confidentiality contract is if tu threaten harm to yourself o others, but this won't be an issue in this matter (I hope).

Hope this helps.
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Thx! It helped me a lot!
Andressa_Weld posted hace más de un año
sapherequeen said:
First thing I want to say, in case this makes tu feel better, is that I may be Bi too. :)
I've been thinking about it for quite a while...

Now, to answer your questions.

1) I personally wouldn't do anything yet if unsure. I mean, I'd suggest that tu wait until tu know for a fact that you're Bi, then figure out what to do next.

2) It's almost completely normal. Don't worry :)

3) tu may be. tu could also be what some call "bi-curious". This is when a person feels attracted to both genders for quite some time, but are unsure on whether they truly are bi o not (If I'm mistaken, feel free to point this out!).

4) That depends. If tu are indeed bi, it may last forever. If not, I'm sure it wouldn't.

5) It depends if tu feel comfortable sharing this with them. If you're en general, general ready to tell your parents that tu may be bi, I'd say go ahead. :)
But if you're not ready to tell anyone yet, maybe tu could wait a little while until tu can.

6) Now that one, I can't answer for sure.
I don't know your friends personally, but even with that I wouldn't be able to answer this in confidence.

What I will say is this....if they do end up not being your friends if they found out, that would be their problem. Not yours. Whether bi o not, you're still the awesome girl I and others know tu as. :)

If other people don't see it, it's on them.

Hope I helped...
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THE BEST ANSWER!! U TOLD ME EXCATLY WHA I NEEDED TO HER! THX!
Andressa_Weld posted hace más de un año
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No problem. Glad I helped :)
sapherequeen posted hace más de un año
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U did! helped a lot! It's good to know i'm not the only!
Andressa_Weld posted hace más de un año
nan0 said:
Well I think U are Bi and it Normal tu can still be friend with her yes it will last forever I think u should talk to your parent about it yes can talk with your friend about that!
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I don't think it'll last forever!
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cherry7878 said:
yes ur bi and theres nothing wrong with it be urself
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Monrose said:
tu may be bisexual. It really depends on yyour friend, so I don't knoww if tu should tell them o not. Same with your parents.
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