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This may sound retarded but....

Mkay I honestly hate when people ask the pregunta such as "what do tu think of me" o anything in that nature but this pregunta is sort of like that. And let me straighten this out before I ask, I'm not asking tu guys this pregunta just because I'm bored o want to just have a pregunta out there but because I really am lost.

Okay so, I've always been against lesbians/gays/bis and have always dicho I'd never be any but here lately I've be "turned on" por both guys and girls and I believe that dado the chance I'd jump at "doin" a girl. So I'm confused what tu call that. Am I straight but wouldn't mind a little boobs o am I bi o what?
 Abilei posted hace más de un año
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Cinders said:
Well, first of all, you're asking in the right place.

The best consejos I can give tu is don't be afraid of your own sexuality. Test the waters. Feel things out. See how it works for you, and how it doesn't work for you. No one but yourself can tell tu if you're gay, straight, bi o "unlabeled." tu are who tu are, but even if tu are bisexual o even a lesbian, remember that it doesn't change who tu are o dictate how tu should act o what tu should do.

Sexuality is a complicated and confusing topic. I'm sure tu can understand now how it's not something tu can flip on and off like a light switch. If tu are adamantly against homosexuality for religious purposes o other reasons, then I can't argue with that, because it's your faith. If tu feel tu have bisexual tendencies, but really, really, really do not want them, then focus on your straight tendencies.

But whatever tu do, do not lie to yourself. Do not pretend tu are something you're not. Do not bury something about yourself just because tu don't like it. This goes for everything, not just sexuality, but I think it's especially poignant on this topic. If tu try and hide who tu are, you'll never be happy with yourself. That may sound cliche, but it's true.

I amor who I love. I am open to a romantic relationship to anyone I believe to be a good person, providing the chemistry is there. Being bi o pansexual allows me that freedom to fall in amor with a person, beyond their gender.

tu amor who tu love. Providing he (or she) is a good person and there is chemistry there. If tu find there is no chemistry with girls/women, o tu find no romantic interest in them, but tu do with boys/men, then that will probably suit your beliefs just fine.

I want to end this with a simple request - even if tu don't like "lesbians/gays/bis" and don't support their crusade to be seen and treated like equal human beings and not sexual deviants, please be kind to them. Don't insult them, o yourself, por calling it unnatural o accusing them all of being sinners. Don't disrespect an individual simply because of his sexuality. I'm not saying that tu do do this already - for all I know, tu could be very civil and understanding. After all, I don't know you. I just wanted to put that out there.

First, seek to understand - then, seek to be understood.
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I completely see what your saying here and it really did help. I'm just at the point of finding what/who I am so I'm not thinking I'm going to come up with the answer anytime soon but I do appreciate your help and tu giving your time.( =
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isabellam said:
A lot of poeple might say you're Bi but I say tu just like who tu like...like me.
I've had this discussion with straight male and female friends and gay male and female friends and they all come to the conclusion that I'm Bi..to which i don't agree. I just happen to like who I like and I find that a lot of people say Bi because they want a label on me, to figure me out I guess.But I think that if tu dont mind defining yourself as Bisexual then that is por all means your choice and right. My opinion is that you're just happy to be with who you're attracted to :P. Good luck!!
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Thanks. But I have another pregunta now.
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shoot.
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you're welcome :)
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kairi13050 said:
i always heard it called bicurious.
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