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Honestly, I need some suggestions/adive. I have questions!

Okay well literally 15 minuets hace i lost my virginity to my boyfriend of 4 months, i amor him and i was ready, and i dont' regret it WHAT so ever. But....

When he placed his tu know in mine, i felt nothing, is that weird?

I had NO orgasm.

I didn't feel like anything, it felt like nothing was inside of me. (and he was.)


Any suggestions on why i had that?

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15 minutos ago...and youre online fanpopping?
germany123 posted hace más de un año
 Chlarkfan posted hace más de un año
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Hellohoudini said:
Well it usually never happens like it does on tv...you know...fireworks...the first time...it usually painfully and usually the guy gets más out of it the first time than the girl...sad but true...but if tu guys truly amor each other (and are using protection and being safe)...you'll learn to 'know' each other and it will get better. :)
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posted hace más de un año 
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Okay, good. Cause i was kinda nervous. I mean like i felt absoloutly NOTHING, not even bad.
Chlarkfan posted hace más de un año
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if u felt nothing 4 him as in emotion then u mite have a problem. then it could have just been sex and tht cold 4 ur first time!
BlackAngel369 posted hace más de un año
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i mean like i amor him, and i loved being with him. but when it comes to pleasure in my vagina, i felt nothing.
Chlarkfan posted hace más de un año
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But tu dicho it was the first time...you were just probably más nervous and scared than tu thought....now if its like youre 5th o 6th...then its he's not any good o he's not the one o tu need to see a doctor....just suggestions.
Hellohoudini posted hace más de un año
BlackAngel369 said:
ok first not evertime a girl will have an orgasm during sex. and 2nd did he cum inside of u,cuz he could b 2 small? (not 2 b mean) if this was ur first time and ur cereza, cerezo didnt pop then do it again and mayb u will. but some girl's cherrys pop and they feel nothing and dont bleed eirthr, so... r u sure he was hard enough and u were wet enough cuz tht helps a lot? sex is diff 4 everyone tht dosent knw wht will happen o wht 2 do.
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posted hace más de un año 
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He's a good size, i know that. (don't worry not mean.) I don't know he was hard and i was wet, it was just SO weird like i felt nothing. no pain no pleasure. I'm just kinda nervous.
Chlarkfan posted hace más de un año
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wht were u so nervous about? geting caught o not knwing wht 2 do?
BlackAngel369 posted hace más de un año
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Both, i guess. But i mean i was relaxed and stuff NOW i'm nervous cause i just thought tu were supposed to feel something physically like bad/good, i felt neither.
Chlarkfan posted hace más de un año
sesshyswind said:
Perhaps your physical build didn't match up, eather his penis was to small o your cannel (vagina)is natually wide. Don't worry I'm not the type to poke fun at a sensitive subject like this, its just that tu may not match up physicaly.

But....XD, WAIT A minuto are tu saying tu just had SEX 15 minutos ago, for the first time, yet tu lept out of cama and logged on to FANPOP!!!! Where was your boy frind when tu were doing this???? WOW now that's.... I don't know what to sayO_O'
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posted hace más de un año 
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I had to go inicial for dinner, so i went onto fanpop during the prepration of my chicken salad. lol.
Chlarkfan posted hace más de un año
LadyLilith said:
Wow, erm...get er done? XD

Well it could be a couple things. I'm surprised that tu didn't even feel anything bad (lucky...). Well...did he wear a condom? Because that could have gotten rid of some of the pleasure (I hate condoms). And usually...Idk, the first time is usually very different compared to sex tu have afterward. tu may have to have sex again o a couple más times to start 'feeling it.' And as sesshyswind said, tu may not match up physically (not saying he's small o anything).
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posted hace más de un año 
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Yeah he wore a condom, (though i'm on the pill, just for extra protection.) yeah we're gonna try it couple más times, hopefully it'll get better. and yeah i mean he's REALLY tall. like 6'3 and i'm 5'3 but i mean he's a gooood size..thank tu for the advice.
Chlarkfan posted hace más de un año
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well "hating" condoms....it might feel different withoot one but PURLEASE give yourself a pat on the back for being safe. since tu say youre on the pill: if this continues tu might want to speak to your doctor aboot this issue and try a different pill. hormones can have an impact on your sex drive and the ability to feel arousal.
germany123 posted hace más de un año
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I just personally hate condoms. I'm glad that tu are being very careful though, Chlarkfan. :) It's probably just because it was your first time. I'm sure things will get pleasureable the siguiente couple times.
LadyLilith posted hace más de un año
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I dunno the truth behind the hormone stuff, but if tu decide to switch up birth control methods and don't want to take a pill I highly suggest a ring. :D They're awesome; I think they have actually increased my sex drive. Just saying.
LadyLilith posted hace más de un año
lililove15 said:
well, umm,. i dont think his "thinggy" wazz bigg... hahaha & hunny he wasnt good enough ether, tu should look for someone better ;]
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Jillywinkles said:
It's NOT because his penis wasn't big enough---far más likely that your clitoris didn't get stimulated enough. Also, do tu masturbate? tu need to mimic a bit what tu do when you're alone, so if tu haven't masturbated much, start practicing. Once tu are turned on and all ready to go, his penis inside tu will be the added pleasure that pushes tu over the edge. But the clit is the key to everything.
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