The only thing that's keeping me from loosing my virginity is the fear of getting pregnant, what do tu think i should do?

Sex can complicate and/or enhance a current relationship, and good sexual chemistry is imperative to a healthy relationship. If tu want to have sex, and feel like tu are physically, emotionally and mentally mature to handle it, then the fear of pregnancy shouldn't hold tu back. There are plenty of good reasons NOT to have sex, but that isn't necessarily one of them.

Condoms are very effective. Though there's still a tiny chance that pregnancy will occur, they also protect tu from STDs, which is also super important! If you're not satisfied with condoms alone, I suggest seeing your gynecologist for a birth control prescription for a fail safe. Condoms in conjunction with the pill are practically fool proof. Several couples use this method all the time.

That being said, please keep in mind that I am in no position to tell tu when to have sex. That's a choice tu ALONE can make, and not anyone else. I'm assuming that tu feel like you're old enough, and that you're mature enough, and that the ONLY THING STOPPING tu is fear of pregnancy.

However, maybe tu should consider if this IS the only thing holding tu back. We often like to make excuses to ourselves to mask the real reasons we don't want to do things. Maybe there's something else keeping tu from having sex that has absolutely nothing to do with pregnancy. Just think about it for a while, and make sure you're being honest with yourself. That's my advice, anyway.

if that IS the only reason then i wouldn't worry too much, as long as tu use protection you'll be fine. condoms are 97% effective and also protect against S.T.I s, however there are plenty of other methods of birth control tu can use (but I'm sure tu know that =))

that is a very good reazon to me :)

i would use a cereza, cerezo flavored condom!(there yummy)
:)but what if it break?
well thats a chance, but a cereza, cerezo condom never broke on me,cuz i amor them!
im alittle weird. but i do amor them,like this much!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!=]

i haven't had sex yet myself to know but if tu are afraid that when tu have sex you'll end up pregnant tu can try condoms and birthcontrol together. Chances are tu won't end up pregnant if tu use both

I completely understand your fear of getting pregnant - I myself have a huge phobia but honestly most contraception is at least 98% effective!! my consejos is if tu are seriously worried use both the pill and condoms - then ur pretty much 100% protected ( plus if tu use condoms u won't get an STD)!
However make sure ur also emotionally ready, often this kind of fear is just a sympton of greater underlining doubts about sex.

eat candy!it will get what your thinking
about of your mind!i mean eat lots of candy!

Have your BF wear a condom.

If tu are at a stage where pregnancy will ruin your life in más ways then one, I strongly suggest tu wait. Its hard at school, and i know form experience, because if tu are to fall pregnant it can mess up your schooling, your relationships with family and friends and if tu are to terminate the pregnancy that can lead to psychological disorders such as depression later on down the track. In saying that, I am currently sexually active andi am in my last año of schooling. i told my parents (not easy and not pleasant), they handles it like any parent would but its still hard. I then talked to my mum (dada o gran, o even a close friend o auntie will do) about contraceptives and what not and i decided to go on the Pill (Levlin Every day) i whent to my doctor and got a prescription for it and now i also use condoms aswell just as back up as there are things than can mess up the effects of the pill....if pregnancy really is the only thing keeping tu from loosing it, your reading, your in a loving and respectful relationship (ask one of your friends if they think thats true, since gus girls seem to be a little deluded when it comes to men) then por ll means if tu are truly ready, talk to tu mum, friends boyfriend and go on some contraceptive that works well for you...also i know tu dont know me, but if tu feel tu have no one to talk to just send me a message, ill be there for you. i know how hard this stuff can be and i may be able to help....hope that helped