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I found something on my friend's facebook

My friend left her facebook logged on on my laptop so I decided to have a quick snout through her messages with her and my friend who I recently fell out with (just to see if they dicho anything about me) And I found a heck of alot of messages slagging me off! From both of them!!! I couldn't help but cry! They were talking about how I'm such a bad friend and so annoying, they were escritura MASSIVE paragraphs full of hate, I couldn't help but cry. I've saved her from suicide and this is how she repays me! I've had sleepless night due to texting her all night when she had suicidal thoughts. I've never had a true friend and I thought she was, I give up on everyone! I've spent so much time on her! She's always come 1st. I just can't believe she would do this to me!:( I want to tell her about it to sort it out but it's kinda my fault for hacking her facebook.... what do I do?
HELP! :'(
 EmLuvsSprinkles posted hace más de un año
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neonClouds said:
Find some new friends, no good can come from remaining friends with someone who secretly hates you. Don't say anything to her either, no insults o backlash, just settle things peacefully.
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Okay, thankyou :)
EmLuvsSprinkles posted hace más de un año
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Sounds like a good idea.
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EgoMouse said:
Ouch, that sucks. I would make new friends immediately. Ditch her. People don't really change easily. I don't feel really comfortable talking about people behind their backs, but most of my female friends and gay male friends do that. Even joking wise, its kinda hard. It takes a huge lack of respect to do something like that. Feel happy that you're a good friend that would help a friend through suicide, but don't ever feel bad about yourself because your friend is an asshole. Please don't give up on people because of her, not everyone's an arse, but a lot are.
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Thankyou so much! I went on her account again this morning and found más messages slagging me off, I think I will ditch her tbh thank you:)
EmLuvsSprinkles posted hace más de un año
Bridget_J said:
First off, tu did a good thing to save her life and tu should always remember that. tu are an amazing friend and that is most important.
Second, tu could try and talk to her, not even mention Facebook. Just start with something like "hey i feel like tu are not being a true friend, that tu have not been as nice to me, that we are not as close." Then see what she says and if tu still really want to talk to her just try and steer the conversation to her not being a good friend.
tu are an amazing friend, and try to find a new friend maybe. I can tell tu are the kind of person everyone wants as a friend.
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That's a brilliant idea! I will do that right now thank tu so much and she doesn't think I'm a great friend but thankyou that really made me smile
EmLuvsSprinkles posted hace más de un año
SeeUV3 said:
I know the feeling I thought I finally found a good friend but once they got a boyfriend they showed their true colors.... She started ignoring me and moving away from me saying how her boyfriend is the only thing that counts and that I am nothing to her . She even rubbed the fact I had a crush on her in my face por saying "ya know I have a bf so tu are JUST a friend " Meanwhile she dicho she liked me back ! I even kissed her once (she didn't mover away and she blushed and smiled and hugged me so I am assuming it was ok) And we got into two big fights calling each other name after nam screaming at each other I just wanted her to talk to me for once and to realize that I care I STAYED UP ALL NIGHT TALKING HER OUT OF SLITING HER WRIST and she says that I am a snobby know it all and that I never did anything to help her!!! Now we don't talk at all....
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Wow, that's horrible! tu seem like a lovely person, don't let her get tu down she obviously doesn't know what she's lost, message me if tu ever wanna talk? Looks like we have a lot in common....
EmLuvsSprinkles posted hace más de un año
sarabeara said:
I've saved her from suicide and this is how she repays me!

Erm, that's definitely not something to be mad about. tu saved a person's life and you're a great person for it, no need to be upset over her not repaying tu for it.

Anyways, like another person suggested, definitely find some new friends. tu sound like a great, dedicated person so I'm sure you'll find better friends someday. Don't lose hope o be hurt. Some people are just immature and don't understand what a great thing they have until it's gone. I'm sure they'll realize their mistake after tu find better friends.
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Okay thankyou
EmLuvsSprinkles posted hace más de un año
summermia_ said:
First of all, do not get her back, i know tu probably werent in the first place but still do not. Two wrongs don't make a right and it wont help anyone. segundo of all, its very honorable of tu to help her with her internal struggles(: Lastly just come up to her and talk to her about it, get her side of the story and then take action, tu never know what was going on, tu always have to be careful with these kind of things. I mean for example what if, like tu did, some one just hacked her account o something. Good luck and I hope tu get amazing friends(:
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Good idea thanks
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Zeppie said:
I relate to this so much (except for the facebook snooping).

I had a so called best friend who I cared for so much, was the only one there for her, stayed up with her for hours talking to her when she was suicidal for 5 years when her own parents didn't even do shit, I had to be like a mother to her. Then she repays me por slagging me off too, calling me a bad friend and always putting me down to make herself feel better.

All I can say is confront her, see where it goes, but ultimately mover on, hold your head up high, tu are an awesome person and they are not worth your time if they dicho such things. Don't let them walk over tu again because it will kill your self esteem. NEVER try to people-please. Learned that the hard way.
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I'm so sorry tu went through that, tu didn't deserve that! And thankyou very much, I'm gonna listen to your consejos (as you've had experience) and confront her and find new friends thanks again :)
EmLuvsSprinkles posted hace más de un año
kpop4everlover said:
You're an amazing friend , we should have más people on earth like tu , your friend is not a true friend , if they talk behind your back o hate tu secretly. tu saved her from suicide , wow what a friend she is to be doing that to you. She is just...wow , just leave her because she doesn't deserve tu helping her then talking behind your back , if she doesn't tell the truth just leave her. Find a new friend , since everyday is a new día and tu can have a fresh start! Don't let one person make tu really upset and sad. tu have lots of time to find a true friend , there are so many people in the world , not just her so be strong and tu will surely find a true friend like yourself!
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Awh that really made me smile thankyou so much :3 And okay good adivice, thanks! :D
EmLuvsSprinkles posted hace más de un año
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