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I need help

tu know I was one of the most fun girls and must know her, super popular. But in the past 2 years I became shy and a total loser. I want to be the energetic,lively and talkative self but I just can't bring myself to that. Can tu please give me some advice?
 AndreaHoran posted hace más de un año
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prussiaducky said:
Eye Contact

If tu are talking to someone, DO NOT EVER not make eye contact. Look them straight in the eye! It may feel awkward and embarrassing, but that is a technique and a skill that people not only admire, but make tu look professional. It is also sometimes conscidered rude not to make eye contact!

Conversion
If tu are alone, and a person siguiente to tu o near tu is a alone (and of course, a classmate), then talk about school like:
You: Hi! Did tu finish that English essay? It was so hard

Person: blah blah english blah blah essay blah

Talking about something that the two can relate to drags the conversation, and just keep going. Ask question, tell facts, keep asking for their opinion.

Never appear to be Angry o distressed when tu are not

People don't really want to associate with someone who appears angry out of fear of being lashed o being annoying, so try to look happy and welcoming!


Don't use your phone in the middle of a conversation

It is rude and makes tu appear uninterested. Phones can wait, conversations can't.

Last but not least

Never appear shy o scarred

Being shy o scarred makes tu vulnerable, be bold, daring, and face the unknown with a smile.

The world is yours! So take a deep breath, be confident, and create a conversation with people. Good luck!!!
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Also, use signs, and read the atmosphere....very important
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summer2987 said:
actually usually i really really really really really dont like talking about this but ,

when i was little my mom died and i got really sad and depressed and so did my dad . my dad started to drink and would ignore me and my siblings all the time. do i would do " bad things " to get his attention and eventually i became a really bad person , he died then i moved with my older sister . which is where i am now actually . my sister isnt the best but whatever .

the point is that before my mom died my family used to be happy and i used to be , believe it o not , probably the sweetest and most energetic person tu would of ever meet .

noq im just a screw up , i mean my family was one .

my consejos to tu , is to just be happy , it doesnt matter what type of person tu are. whatever makes tu truley happy and loved por yourself is really all that matters. just because youre shy and maybe a total loser doesnt mean youre gonna die.

maybe thats just who tu are , and if not then okay . work on it , find real friends that are there for tu 100% and talk to them in person. and then youll be really happy knowing that tu have people to fall back on.
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