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If I walked away from somebody who made me feel like absolute shit, am I the one to blame?

..Just wondering. Because I didn't explain anything to them, never told them how I feel, and gradually stopped hanging out with them (this September, actually; after a año and a half of being with them). And now they make me feel so bad/guilty por asking me stuff like "Do tu hate us?", "Why don't tu want to hang out with us anymore?", "Why are tu so cold?" etc. etc.

...I'm just really confused. :/
 Templarette posted hace más de un año
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XxKeithHarkinxX said:
tu should have explained how tu felt, to give them some closure.

But other than that, not really
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I see your point, but..What if they'll react, um..Not calmly?
Templarette posted hace más de un año
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If their response is negative just walk away.
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brandonaz said:
Nothing's your fault; tu should always walk away from people who make tu feel like shit because they're bad for tu and tu should surround yourself with positive people. I think tu should be straight with them now though and tell them why tu stopped hanging out with them, for closure.

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Thank tu for answering. :) I think I might actually do that soon.
Templarette posted hace más de un año
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Great answer.
jester616 posted hace más de un año
HeitsiTsegin said:
tu have no obligation to be nice to someone who does nothing but hurt you.
Now, if that person does do nice things for tu once in a while, he/she may be trying to be nice but is having a hard time with it. tu should do what tu think is best, but try to think about it before tu do it.
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Solas said:
If your relationship with someone is destructive then tu have every right to walk away. But I think tu do owe them an explanation. Just so that tu put it all behind tu and mover on. Even if they respond badly to what tu say, tu shouldn't feel bad about it because tu have done your best to resolve the situation.
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goldenstar12 said:
tu should tell them the truth.... maybe they feel like its a slap in the face to them. They are wondering. Dont worry tu are not the one at fault... it would though be a good idea to tell them why tu have changed sides.?? One thing for sure tu do not need to feel guilty because that will just eat you. its human nature to change so its fine.
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madisonkbruce said:
hell to the fucking no
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JenniferxD said:
No way! Why should tu stay around people who make tu feel like shit? That's only a stress booster not to mention it would be super annoying to have to face someone who always shuts tu down. But if they ask tu that again, explain why. Hopefully, they understand. And they might stop doing whatever it is that's making tu feel like shit. Sometimes, tu have to point out a flaw.
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