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Is my boyfriend right? Am I judgemental and shallow?

My boyfriend's friends are into drugs. Not real hard stuff o anything, but I totally disagree with it. I dicho it to him the other día that I didn't want to be hanging around with them and he dicho I was judgemental and shallow because of it. Is he right? They're pretty nice guys, but I disagree completely with drugs....should I just ignore it? But I don't want these guys hanging around my house? And because my bf got so defensive, I'm afraid he's started into them. If this is true, and he insists on continuing to use them, do tu think I should end it with him?? :/
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Thanks for all the consejos guys!! :) x
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NoahFanNumber1 said:
My advice: dump the guy for someone better. Don't worry about yourself being "shallow", because you're smart for wanting to not be around them, just don't have a boyfriend who calls tu names and doesn't say "yes" to you.


I don't know tu that well, but tu are definitely NOT shallow o judgmental. tu are very smart for trying to avoid those idiot pot-heads.

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Couldn't of dicho it better.^
Chewfjkd posted hace más de un año
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^why thank tu 0u0
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m0shercisee said:
not shallow but a little judgemental yea. i do weed sometimes and i know a lot of people who do. doing drugs doesn't make someone a bad person so don't break up with him for that. jus let him and his friends do their own thing and stop trying to control what tu boyfriend does. tu can tell them tu don't want them at your house but who your bf is friends with isn't up to tu :/

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drugs can KILL you...does your life mean anything to you!?
purpleslurp12 posted hace más de un año
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things like weed don't kill 99.9% of people and that's all most people do. anyway that had nothing to do with the pregunta aha.
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BeastBoyCahill said:
No, he's wrong.
They're wrong to do drugs and tu should try to reason with him... (Of course, tu ARE trying to reason with him... that's just something I think tu should keep going with.)
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Sinna_Hime_chan said:
tu are not the shallow one. tu are the smart one and he is just defensive. It is sad. tu don't want to get busted if he gets into trouble because tu are with them o something. If he's into drugs I'd just blow him off now while tu can before it really hurts you.
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couldn't have dicho it better myself! *votes best answer*
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ixAthena said:
It's your boyfriend who's wrong, not you.
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Ssmiley_143 said:
I think if tu don't like hanging around with him why not just dump him?
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BlindBandit92 said:
Some people would disagree with me. I do know that people have been trying to get certain drugs legal but honestly if he is not doing it for medicinal purposes and is doing illegally, I say dump him because dating who is addicted to drugs can hurt tu even if tu don't do it yourself. Your boyfriend is just defensive.

Just my take on the matter.
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greengirl8 said:
Yes! If tu feel uncomfortable with what they're doing, tu should stop hanging with them. And your boyfiend is totally wrong, tu are not judgemental and shallow! Don't ever let anybody push tu around, especially when it comes to matters like this! :)
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