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What should I do?

Ok well my friend Dezri really liked this guy Ryan and he secretly liked her so one día he asked her out and they went out for about a week and he then broke up with her because, "We don't know each other very well." (isn't that the point of dating?) But the thing is we have this group and it consists of me, this guy named Evan, and Dezri and Ryan and we have like little exclusive Halo parties where only we're invited. So LAST Sunday we had one and Ryan was there and that was the last time he talked to me and Dezri. This has made Dezri really depressed and made me angry and Evan pissed, and we can't figure out his problem if he won't tell us so how do we get his attention? How do we get him to tell us his problem and talk to us? please help :'(
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oh and yesterday i saw the hunger games with dezri and ryan was there and he just ignored dezri... then i treid to text him and make him see that he's hurting all of us and dezri told me, "I amor him... Like Peeta loves Katniss!" i cried... and i didn't even cry when Rue died
dracofan001 posted hace más de un año
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justingurl99 said:
Alright, I'll try to help out as best as I can (I'm not very familiar with the Hunger Games, but I'll assume it's like a "I amor him from the very bottom of my damn heart" kinda thing)


First of all: NO. I don't believe the point of dating is to get to know each other. When two people are dating, they should know each other well enough BEFORE that, because that builds up trust.


Now, is Ryan talking to Evan? Maybe Evan can talk to Ryan then. If not, maybe Ryan just feels weird talking to Dezri because well, they were ONCE together but they are not anymore. Believe me, that's the reason MY ex didn't talk to me much for like, 2 months (Which doubled the pain 'cause he likes my Best Friend). I'd say, try to talk to him. Just start a friendly conversation when you're around him. If he talks back, then YAY! If he doesn't, well, give him some space. Maybe he really needs it. I'm sure he'll come around soon.

It's that o the Ryan dude doesn't like your friend anymore. He has the chance to get to know her better, and he threw it in her face. Find out whether the two still have feelings for each other. Arrange one of your little parties, take Evan out of the room along with yourself and lock 'em in. See what happens next. Make sure Dezri knows about it so she can try to talk it out with Ryan. If tu hear them talking, and they are ready to face whatever the problem is, THEN open the door. Make sure tu take all means of communication away from them. Best of luck!
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thank you! and yes ryan talks to evan because they go to the same school so he kinda has to because evan will puñetazo, ponche ryan otherwise... but ryan just says that he doesn't have a problem and isn't ignoring dezri which is a total lie... but thank you! ill try that :)
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