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Okay so I'm 15 years old and have a major crush on one of the guys I've known since I was 10. We are really great friends but I don't know f he feels the same way back. I'm not looking for a serious relationship o anything but I'm debating about weather o not I should ask him out. Alot of my friends have told me that I should wait for him to ask me out because he is the guy but I think that maybe that's to old fashioned and sexist. On the other hand I'm afraid that if I do ask and he doesn't feel the same way it could wreck a truly amazing friendship. I've had a crush on him since we were 12 and I just can't contain it all inside of me any más but I don't know if it's worth risking our friendship. Please help me tu guys! I feel like I've turned everywhere else with no success. If tu give me ligitamet consejos I will give tu props! :) lol
 BookNerd17 posted hace más de un año
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Me_Iz_Here said:
(Thinks about the amazingly similar situation I'm in)

Tell him tu like him first. If he's okay with it, then ask him out. It shouldn't ruin your friendship if he's a really good friend. Just do whatever tu think tu should do.
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posted hace más de un año 
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A lot better than my very long answer... lol.
Sandfire_Paiger posted hace más de un año
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Thnx, I think that's probably what I should do and I think I know that somewhere inside of me but it still is hard to do.
BookNerd17 posted hace más de un año
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Good luck with your situation!
BookNerd17 posted hace más de un año
jayem801 said:
If uu really like himm... like a lot, well i think uu should just come clean ,just tell him how uu feel , .... tell him that if uu guys can be más then friends beacause if uu just keep it all inside it's going to kill uu más trust mee' i was in this problem too... if he doseen't, at least uu had the guts to tell him... && be pround of yurr self (: if he dosen't feel the same way ?... Then just be friends but don't let that get in the way... There lots of guys out there "a lot" maybe there sum one like him but a little better... and maybe he is just waiting on a perfect girl like tu <3
i hoped i kinda helped c:
♥- Kamie
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It did sort of! It was very motivational:)
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Sandfire_Paiger said:
Well, I'm not very experienced with boys, considering I'm 12.

You've known him for five years. Well, its just me but, I think tu would probably know him well enough to at least predict his reaction. Take that into account. And if it seems like it would go well, ask him out. Who cares if its 'traditional' for a guy to ask out the girl? And if tu have no idea how he'll react, then I would still think about it carfully and most likely ask him out. If he says no, and things are awkward, just do things like tu regularly do, and try and get things back to normal. Thats the best consejos I can give! Hope it works out well!


por the way, tu might get better respuestas here:

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posted hace más de un año 
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Being as like tu dicho tu don't have a ton of experience with boys, that was a very good answer :) it's just hard because the way he is he is never really open about any type of serious emotion and I get nervous sometimes talking with him about it.
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creepyboy7 said:
follow your dear heart! that is the dearest consejos i can give tu at this dear moment!
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Lol, thnx
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Animetama said:
If tu don't wanna ask him out, then look for signs that tell tu whether o not he likes tu o not. Like if he talks to tu alot o leans foward whenever tu guys talk. Im sure it'll all work out in the end. Try flirting yourself too, if he responds, then I'm sure he likes tu on some level.
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Thnx :) but I'm a terrible flirt! lol
BookNerd17 posted hace más de un año
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lolz then practice >:P however he flirts with tu (if he does) flirt the same way!
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