If u were a parent would tu want your daughter/son dating in middle school/high school?

I think that parents controlling how their kids fecha is unreasonable. I think that dating should be the choice of the child, not the parents. Especially when it comes to teenagers because most people become interested in relationships and dating in their teens, and that's when they learn about such things.

as long as i knew who the person was and what they were doing at all times. They would kind of having me tagging along.

I know people that started dating in 3rd o 4th grade.

Your parents are mad and selfish.
Your life is too short to wait until after college.

What will affect your school work is if tu find someone tu amor but can't openyl fecha them, so tu have to either do it in secret o not at all which will really play on your mind and bring tu down. trust me, when you're in amor truly then not hell o high water will stop tu wanting to be in love, and whether your parents like it o not, thats a fact of teenage reality and its something theyre going to have to deal with.
what if tu meet the right person soon, but listen to your parents and pass por the opportunity? i mean, wtf that would suck. they were in amor once too. all our parents were.

The answer to your pregunta is that tu are ready to fecha when tu are in amor and tu feel mature enough to handle it. afterall, your parents don't know every aspect of your personal life so how will they know if tu are keeping it from them.

My consejos to tu would be that tu should wait until you're genuinely in amor (you'll know it when it comes- it'll hit tu like a train) then tu should start getting into talks with your parents about how tu would prefer not to live this secret life just so they can see everything through rose-colored glasses in their deluded world, when really they're putting their own daughter in danger por not letting tu be open with them.

Although i can see they only want the best for you, the más your parents try to restrain tu the más you'll want to break free and rebel, so what theyre doing is wrong.

The truth is, teenagers fecha whether their parents like it o not. the key is that the LUCKY teens are the ones whose parents accept and respect that.

My parents dicho I couldn't fecha until I was sixteen, which is pretty reasonable. If they don't regulate, you've got these junior high kids talking about who they slept with, for crying out loud they're too young for sex.

As long as tu keep up with your schoolwork and maintain a healthy relationship with your parents, go for it. Ew, now i sound like a parent.
Just go for it.

Not to pregunta your parents' authority but when tu go to college, you'll be eighteen, a legal adult. tu could do what tu want then.

Your perfil says your thirteen. Your still in middle school, right? Just focus on your school work now and discuss dating when tu get older. Your to young to be thinking about that stuff right now, it just makes everything más complicated. Trust me. Just enjoy being young while tu still can.

Your parents just probably have your best interest at corazón right now. If tu talk to them and explain that tu want to date, they may let you. Have a mature heart-to-heart conversation with them. If they won't, it's okay. It's not the end of the world. You'll have más chances in the future :)

yeah, i'd let them.

i would say a 'serious' dating relashionship should start in about 7th grade o around that...
idk.

My kids would have to wait to get married after collage but I'd let them fecha in late middle school early high school

As a parent I find this highly unreasonable.I allowed my children to go on group dates as young as 13.I allowed my children to fecha at 15.Kids need social interaction with peers as well as recreation time.
As long as tu are actuación responsibly and don't engage in sex,I think tu should be able to date.

It depends if the r going to fast in there dating if it's to were they are laying on tube of each ather I would not light my son o daughter dat because that is over to fare.but if they r just huging and besar I am ok with that.so middle school my mom is lighting me dat in middle now so I would be ok with that.