wow so sorry to hear that!!.. i would listen to some sad songs, cry let it out, then listen to some death metal, and start to heal por relating to the lyrics n get all my anger n aggression out, but it does take me a few days to feel better. again, im sorry! if u need to talk hit me up.
Here these should help and I'm srry 2 here that... also the link 2 where I found this :D there's lots of helpful stuff on here so take ur time and read threw it if u need help also try talking with ur mom o some other family members I do belive it's good 2 talk with friends but not always with stuff like this cause u nv know who they would tell and I think it just causes más pain,suffering,sorrow,and drama if u poor ur corazón out 2 them and then they tell every1...
Step 1 Acknowledge and accept your feelings of anger, sadness and disappointment over the betrayal.
Step 2 Don't blame yourself for his actions. Remember that tu can't be responsible for anyone's behavior other than your own.
Step 3 Try to set aside your emotions and look at the situation from an outsider's point of view. What consejos would tu give to your friend?
Step 4 Evaluate whether his behavior has permanently destroyed your trust in him and in your relationship. Do tu believe he won't repeat his actions in the future?
Step 5 Confront your boyfriend and tell him exactly how tu feel about his actions. Let him know that cheating is not acceptable behavior in your relationship.
Step 6 If tu feel tu need to know why he cheated on tu to obtain closure for yourself, listen to his explanations about his behavior. Remember that listening does not mean tu condone, agree with o accept his behavior.
Step 7 Don't allow him to manipulate your feelings with sweet words of apology o promises never to cheat on tu again. Be realistic. Do tu honestly believe this was a one-time event, o do your instincts tell tu that he'll probably cheat on tu again in the future?
Step 8 Ask yourself if tu would be better off with him o without him. Can tu continue to enjoy the relationship, knowing about the betrayal?
Step 9 Find a constructive outlet for your emotions of disappointment and anger.
Step 10 Give yourself time to grieve over the betrayal. Whether tu stay with him o not, forgive him for his actions so tu can heal and mover on with your life.
Read more: How to Handle a Cheating Boyfriend | eHow.com link
small frases from other girl(s) that had 2 deal with the pain till they found a way the heal their corazón once again
I'm so sorry that happened. If he did that then he obviously doesn't deserve you. As for helping with a broken heart? I'm sorry but I don't really have consejos for that. Just remember that you're too good for that dirty cheater.
tu shouldnt come to me for that kind of advice, i...im a cutter...last time my heat was broken i took a cuchillo to my wrist and i dont want tu doing the same to yourself!If tu feel youself heading down that same path, dont follow through, TALK TO SOMEONE!
Sorry to hear that happened to you.:( Just remember that if he didn't know just how great tu were, chances are he definitely doesn't deserve you. Also a best friend should know that tu liked him! Personally I like to talk it out with my friends and try to do things that I like to take my mind off of it. Hope this helps. :)
I'm so sorry to hear that, just try to cry it out and maybe make up a story in which something bad happens to them. When I liked this guy but he liked another girl my mom made up a story that I was an adult and a famous autor as well has having a hot Australian husband and I came back to my hometown for a book signing, the guy I used to like is there with the girl he likes and she was fat and grumpy. Maybe if tu make up a story like that it will make tu feel better.
I'm not very good with giving advise, but I think tu should mover on - that's what I did when I came back from halloween break and the flu to find my crush was dating some girl I didn't like - Talk to some friends about it, watch TV - it's what I do when I'm depressed.
awwwwwwww D: im really sorry to hear that........my advice: try talking to your friends about it, o talk to your mom(thats what i would do) and tu could also watch some tv to help forget about him um....thats really all the consejos i could give seeing that i never had a boyfriend
I'm so sorry :( The same thing happened to me last year, & i know how much it hurts, but you've got to mover on. Any guy & any "friend" who would ever do that to u isn't worth it. You'll find the perfect guy, one who actually deserves u, one day. I promise. While your waiting for him, be good to yourself. &, of corse, looking at the hottest guy in the world dosen't hurt, either :)
look up the song CheaterCheaterBestFriendEater por Never Shout Never on youtube. iit might help. maybe. and if not draw a whole bunch of pics of him falling off a cliff o getting eaten por sharks o getting some sort of injuries. that always helps me
When I have a broken corazón I will listen to sad música and try to let out all my feels and just think. In a place alone por my self so i can just think and to myself with out anyone bugging me. When I feel better I start listening to happier música and sing along I will also talk to my friends to make me laugh and smile (suround your self with good friends). And I will wriet out my feels sometimes. I will wriet it in my dairy. XD some people say that chocolate helps -_- i think it does. When I was sad about my bf my friend John told me to eat chocolate and ice cream and watch tv o listen to music...lol