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Why do tu get depressed?

For all of tu people out there who get depressed, what is it usually over? Relationships? Friends? Family? For me, it goes deeper then most people wish to think of...
 thespikedturtle posted hace más de un año
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Abilei said:
Honestly I've never been depressed, but I have been pretty low. Normally what brings me down are either family troubles o friends who are going through hard times. I hardly ever get down about my own personal problems. It's just not me, I put my loved ones before myself no matter the cost nor the pain it may cost me.



I will say though I know for most of my friends they get depressed over guys. I know its mean but when they come to me about a guy/girl I sort of have to chuckle. Because to me NO guy/ girl is worth being depressed over, I mean if they make tu feel like crap...get rid of 'em. That was just a side note, take it o leave it.( =
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 Honestly I've never been depressed, but I have been pretty low. Normally what brings me down are either family troubles o friends who are going through hard times. I hardly ever get down about my own personal problems. It's just not me, I put my loved ones before myself no matter the cost nor the pain it may cost me. I will say though I know for most of my friends they get depressed over guys. I know its mean but when they come to me about a guy/girl I sort of have to chuckle. Because to me NO guy/ girl is worth being depressed over, I mean if they make tu feel like crap...get rid of 'em. That was just a side note, take it o leave it.( =
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Yeah, that's what I feel like a lot of the time. Since I've never truly fallen in love, I don't have to worry about the segundo part. But a lot of the times I'm depressed, it's from family and friends. And other things that most people try not to think about.
thespikedturtle posted hace más de un año
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Yeah. I guess if I were to be truely honest I could be depressed if I let my mind wonder over everything that's gone down recently with not just friends and family but myself included. But (this sounds dumb) I seem to not be able to get depressed. Life has too much to offer for me to be depressed.
Abilei posted hace más de un año
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I've also been in the middle of all that dramtic crap and really just being in the cruzar, cruz fuego killed me. I wanted them to just make up and get over it. (See one friend was colored and the other was white, and supposently the white girl called the colored one a "N" word and it all went down colina from there.)
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Kanji said:
i dont get depressed
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 i dont get depressed
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Good for you!
Abilei posted hace más de un año
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Yeah, that picture's not depressing at all... *shudders*
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Omg, amor dat pic too, it's cute.
twilight0girl posted hace más de un año
ThatDamnLlama said:
I have no más cheese left to make a sandwich. ='(
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HAHA!
Abilei posted hace más de un año
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Now you've got me all depressed! :(
mimifaith posted hace más de un año
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Ahahaha now I want a ham and cheese sandwich. But we have no ham :(
joose32 posted hace más de un año
E-rock said:
Because am unloved D:
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Awwwwww, that's so sad. I'm positive someone loves you!
Abilei posted hace más de un año
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What do tu mean por "loved," do tu mean as a true friend o as a relationship?
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volleyblue13 said:
I don't usually get depressed so.. I wouldn't know haha
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That's good, living a happy life is a good life. :)
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xXSweeneyXx said:
Because I have depression.
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But what sort of sad things do tu think about that make tu depressed? o are tu just always depressed no matter what tu think about?
thespikedturtle posted hace más de un año
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I don't really know, but I actually have clinical depression, so I suppose that I would answer your título pregunta por saying that my body doesn't produce enough of a certain chemical that releases happy feelings and things. Not the sory of answer tu were expecting, right?
xXSweeneyXx posted hace más de un año
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Not really, but I can definitely understand, that's kinda sad though... So you're just always depressed? Hmm, I guess that could be an answer to the question... oh well :)
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EmoCupCake said:
Ok.....if I explained about everything that made me depressed it would probably take 2 pages....But I WILL explain a few...cause some I don't feel like sharing with every fanpopper.

One thing that makes me depressed is my family. My step-mom is very mean. She likes to yell a lot. Even when I'm doing nothing wrong. She also likes to hit sometimes. And my dad defends me but then they get into big fight and I'm locked up in my room while there is cursing, and both of them always blame it on me...which I'm starting to believe it's really my fault because maybe if I just never talked and shut up and did everything I was told it would get better...

Another thing that makes me depressed is how different I am from eveyone at my school. I dress differently and like different stuff and some people don't like that.

Another thing that makes me depressed. (Well really it's a result of depression, but it makes it worse) is my nightmares. I usually can't go to sleep without dreaming of being killed por something, killing myself, o killing something else. It makes me get little sleep and I used to enjoy horror cine and now I don't that much..

And that is as much as I wish to share....There is plenty más but I can't share them.....



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2nd paragraph- I know exactly how tu feel. I don't really dress differently, I always wear jeans and a t-shirt. But I'm definitely different, and it bugs me, but I know I'm different in a good way, so I don't really worry about it too much.
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1st paragraph- It's not your fault, it's your step-mom's. If your dad doesn't notice that and firmly stick up for you, then it's his fault too. It's hard to believe they're still married...
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EmoCupCake it took me a while to work through being different in school too. But since then I've gained a new perspective which makes me feel a lot better. Yes maybe you're different. I'm different in a lot of ways. But what makes tu different is your preference. It's not fair to feel ashamed over something other people think isn't acceptable. If they don't like what's different then its probably not worth caring about their opinion in the first place. Be proud of who tu are. tu can't force yourself to be someone else and people won't truly know tu if tu do. When I stopped being so conscious about what other people thought I relaxed. And it turns out people like me a lot más when I'm just myself. If there's no one who thinks that about tu now, don't force it. Give it time and tu will find someone who likes tu the way tu are. I think you'll find your nightmares will go away when tu feel better about yourself too - dreams reflect your state of mind. Once tu start thinking a little más positively your dreams will change too.
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EgoMouse said:
When I think too much about all the cr*p in the world instead of looking at the "good" things in life.
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That's the same thing for me, but in much simpler form.
thespikedturtle posted hace más de un año
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I see. Every time I tell my real personal problems, people either ignores me o rather make me feel worse. Its still an improvement...
EgoMouse posted hace más de un año
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That's good! :) I must be weird o something, I can talk about any sort of topic no matter if I'm happy o sad. I actually asked this pregunta when I was really happy.
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snoznoodle said:
I'm so laid back nothing much depresses me... besides probably not doing as well as I could in assignments because I'm so laid back I leave them till the last minute. Catch 22. But I know I have a lot to be thankful for if laziness is my only real probably.
p.s. I should be doing homework right now. Feeling a little depressed :P
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I know how that feels! :)
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LocoTransPiXp7 said:
Yeah there are too many things that get me down but the biggest one is true love! I just dont understand it and just really dont want to! No matter how hard i try its like some complicated thing. Idk I just dont need to waste my time with it anymore.
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GiveGroove said:
I really am a happy person and I like to live life to the fullest and positively(:

When people who're close to me get sad, I tend to be sad with them tho, I don't worry about myself too much.

The only thing that really puts me down is when I think about my grandma, my mom, and my grandpa..


R.I.P 2/09, 5/09, 8/09.....
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aww that's so sad
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darkhorn19 said:
no reason...just for the sake of being depressed
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Well that seems kinda strange, who wants to be depressed?
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mimifaith said:
Because sometimes, life sucks, and tu just have to deal with it in your own way...
This would be mine...
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 Because sometimes, life sucks, and tu just have to deal with it in your own way... This would be mine...
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Ahahaha amor your pic. Awww and such a cute kitty :D
joose32 posted hace más de un año
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:D amor the picture!!
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Eclipse14 said:
Same reason as anyone I guess.
After u hav had a few bad days.All the problems u usually hav get larger.It happens to everyone.

I really dont hav many problems o consistent reasons for depression.
I just brake down after a ruff day.Wich honestly happens every couple of weeks.Normaly Im not very depressed.
Moody maybe but not really depressed for any good reason.
But here r a couple of reasons I dwell on during depression though I dont think they actually make me depressed:
1.Things my friends say
2.Boys
3.My hair
4.Things people probably say behind my back
5.Our Countries financial state
6.Tear drippers and horrors
7.The way they treat beef cows and chickens
(Its so sad)
Like I dicho nothing huge.
Im rather fortunite theses r my only problems.
There is always a filthier yard Right.
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joose32 said:
I'm too happy to be depressed. Most times I have no idea why I'm happy. I guess I'm just a happy go lucky person. If something sad o bad happens I have to try find a way to smile about it.
It's a defence mechanism I suppose.

Family stuff suck big time, but when someone has an argument I take one of them away and try make them laugh. It usually works por me mocking them about their stupid fight. There's a small possibility I might get hit for that but it hasn't happened yet. I think the fact that they think I'm innocent helps. Plus I throw them a contagious smile o laugh then they can't help but laugh too XD

I'm the family joker. It's my job to make them smile and I don't take that lightly ;D
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Cookie_Glam said:
My Life Sucks So I Am Depressed All The Time! It Sucks To Be Me! I Am Depressed About So Many Things Too Many To Really Mention And It's All So Personal But, tu Asked! One Reason Is I Think I Am Destined To Be Alone And Miserable For The Rest Of My Life! I Have Good Reason To Belive That From The Experiences I Have In Life!
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Hmm, that's pretty sad... I did ask though. If tu want to talk about it, I'm here. :)
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SuperUkeChan said:
misceláneo reasons... My mood changes really fast and it's really extreme [I mean, one moment I can be all happy and "yay~~" and the other moment I start to cry...] so I have no way of knowing what causes it... But usually I guess that it's either my friends o my family... But mostly, if I just think too much about myself and what's going on o not going on in my life... o when I look at myself in the mirror and for one segundo I think I'm prettey and the other moment I realize I'm not and it's really dipressing... I don't know, I have a low self asteem [sorry if I wrote it wrong O_o] so mostly I just think about myself and I think I'm stupid and I just start to cry o something >>;
Or... something.
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Monrose said:
Well.. If I run out of money, I get a bad, bad feeling. Like I've lost a part of myself :(
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archiejake1991 said:
Right now im depressed bcoz,my xms starts tomorrow.......subjects are so tough that nothing is getting into my head......I usually get depressed during xm times.......for relaxation i opened fanpop..then,i saw this question.....guess i wont have time to sleep tonight:(
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omg..i have the same problem, my exams are tough too...you feel like tu have to pass to please everyone:) good luck though
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thanks:)
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musicfanaticXD said:
I have only ever been depressed for one day...I had a really bad fallout with my besties and they spread all this shit about me so I couldn't make any new friends. It sounds kind of weak now, but after a few months I seriously wondered weather it would be better if I was dead.
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twilovers said:
I felt like killing sumone when my mom eat my last slice of pizza. it made me wanna....IT MAKE ME WANNA...!


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 I felt like killing sumone when my mom eat my last slice of pizza. it made me wanna....IT MAKE ME WANNA...!
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I know right!
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twilight0girl said:
Family issues is what mainly gets me depressed.I dont get extreamly depressed, but, just alittle.

And sometimes school, since there's people in my school who dont like me because of my race (white).So that also kinda is depressing i guess tu can say.
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I know how tu feel about both of those, my school is %70 percent black, and a lot of the white people that do go there act getto and stuff, it does make me depressed.
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do tu go to my school that sounds just like my school
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orangeturnip said:
simple answer ... but not so simple to comperhend...

one theory is that :depression is suppressed anger.
i get depressed sometimes but im not sure if it is caused por anger but if it is suppressed i wouldn't really know
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No, I get it. It is pretty hard to explain, but I get what you're saying.
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littlebirdy05 said:
Fascinating question, and fascinating answers, I think I'll put my own reasons. :P

First things first, depression runs in my family for one, but there are quite a lot of things that aren't really helping, either. Here's a few.

inicial life. It sucks dude, I live with my neat freak, depression and anger prone grandma, and my ADHD sister. Not that either of those are bad things, it's just not a good combination. Not to mention, we will soon be joined por my aunt, who is worse than my grandma. We live in a tiny, less than single wide trailer, where not even the BATHROOM has a door, let alone my room. Why do I live with my grandma? My mother abandoned me and my sister three times now, to go off and marry some dude (She's married to a quadriplegic this time, and they live in a small room at their friends house), and my father, well, last I heard he was in Kentucky. I'm also prone to self harm, and the occasional 'thought', but that's my fault.

School days. They also suck. As if being short, slightly below average looking, and non athletic were not cama enough for society today, I also have Tourrett's Syndrome, which can, tu know, cause some difficulty and make one an EASY target for poking fun at. Like calling 'Twitchy' o barking at, o being called an attention whore (if you'll pardon the language) and being accused of faking it all in the first place.

To parte superior, arriba it all off, I've also managed to inherit all of my families mental issues. Yay me, right? Social phobia, OCD, Schizoid personality disorder(this keeps me from being able to handle praise o affection), temper problems, paranoia, and a great possibility of Paranoid Schizophrenia. XP Which occasionally causes delusions, hallucinations, and so on and so forth (basically when people think of 'crazy' they're thinking of schizophrenia).

This, for those of tu reading, is ONLY the tip of the iceberg, here. And yet I don't complain, because no matter how bad anyone's life gets, there's always someone worse off, so, for me, it's all good. :P
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Ooh, wow... Your inicial life does sound depressing, I don't get why your mom would abandon her kids like that... Your school life isn't too bad. I'm considered a nerd at my school, I don't have a wild social life either. And getting all the disorders and stuff couldn't be fun either... but it'll be okay, we still amor tu on here! :)
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Hehe, that's kinda why I've got the phrase "I DO have a life, thank tu very much... it just exists on the internet." XD
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jblovesme4ever said:
over lots of things a lot way to personal to tell..but i uaslly get reallt sad-depressed after i gget mad if i cry when my grades drop...other stuff again to personal to tell...
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