Please help

I'm just wondering, because I'm still hearing stories about Peter going to other people, even though I still believe. How will I know when he comes o one of the lost boys comes ( I've heard that people are getting visits from Oncan) when will he come. I believe in him, so why hasn't he come for me yet? Also can Peter hear tu if you're trying to communicate with him through thoughts? because it's been a little risky for me latley to open my window to talk because I don't want my parents to catch me