Peaceandlove67 Article: 20th Birthday Speech

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posted by Peaceandlove67

Hi, everyone! Antonia here, and this might seem a bit premature, but my 20th birthday will be here before we know it. On March 1, I will be twenty. That's less than a mes away.

I'll be honest. I'm not ready to be an adult. Starting March 1, I won't be a teenager anymore. I have less than a mes as a teenager. I'll wake up on March 1, and I'll be an adult. I just don't feel ready. Of course, those who are already adults have told me that there's not much difference between nineteen and twenty. I mean, there's nothing I can do on March 1 that I can't do on February 28.

Feel free to send me a birthday message, wish me a Happy Birthday on my wall, o post a picture on my club on March 1. I'm not begging. It's up to you. tu can do all of the above if tu want. Again, I'm not begging. It's up to you. If you're already twenty o older, feel free to tell me what's it's like. Do tu feel like an adult? If so, when did tu start feeling like an adult?

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Rubyrings The minute I woke up on my 20th birthday, I felt so strange. I realized I was an adult, and I wasn't ready to be an adult - pretty much exactly what you're describing here. Eventually I adjusted to it, but for the longest time, I still felt like I was 18 inside. (Except of course when I went to places that served alcohol, because you have to be at least 19 to order alcohol in Canada.) Good luck with the 20 milestone, and I hope you get something really spectacular for your birthday.

80smusiclover1 I hope the same thing. Don't worry, you're not alone. When I turned twenty last December, I didn't feel like an adult at all, especially since I look very young for my age.

BingoPB I wasn't ready to be an adult when I turned twenty. I actually didn't start feeling like an adult until I started shadowing at the veterinary clinic in my hometown. I did it when I was in high school, but I was a teenager then. Being an adult isn't so bad, Antonia. I can assure you that it's going to be okay.

ktichenor I hope you have a great birthday, too. Tbh I felt nothing when I turned 20, in fact I actually became an adult at sixteen cause that's when my mom started declining. So, I never had teen years but I learned that age really was just a number and that it was just more important to enjoy life and not really worry about how old you were getting. But I can understand that you're scared just remember to enjoy life and think of all the opportunities you'll be getting. And if it helps I'm 34 and a lot happier than I was at 19. :) But good luck!

yorkshire_rose I wish you a wonderful day too,Antonia.I think age is just a number really, as Kirsten says.I would just take each day as it comes,and enjoy it to the fullest,as life is too short for anything else.I like this quote "Life Is a Journey ...Not a Destination" That is so true.We learn at on lif'e's journey.I hope that your journey will be full of,happiness,joy and many blessings along the way, my dear friend 💕

Peaceandlove67 Thanks, everyone. Maybe being an adult won't be so scary after all.

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Finding a Way to Cope Part 1

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New Religion: New inicial Part 4

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New Religion: New inicial Part 3

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New Religion: New inicial Part 2

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New Religion: New inicial Part 1

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True friends See Past Your Scars Final Part

posted by Peaceandlove67

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True friends See Past Your Scars Part 19

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When I started the eleventh grade in August 2016, I was still grieving over Millie. One day, I had a talk with the guidance counselor at my school. I told her, "If I had known Millie was going to die, I would have been más patient with her. There were times I lost my temper with her and just lashed out at her." The guidance counselor put her hand on my shoulder. She said, "Autumn, that's not what Millie remembers. In fact, she told me about all the times tu and Glenn stood up to bullies for her." I felt better after that talk. I later met Glenn in the hall, and we walked to the lunchroom...

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True friends See Past Your Scars Part 18

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The summer of 2016 started out rather badly. One day, my aunt and uncle and I visited with my paternal grandparents. As we were heading back home, we noticed these two idiots racing each other in their trucks. My uncle tried to avoid them, but there was nowhere he could go to avoid them. They hit the car and drove off without any regard for what they had done. We all got out to see the damage. My aunt said, "It looks pretty bad. I'm glad everyone's all right." She then noticed me staggering. She said, "Autumn, you're hurt." I was taken to the hospital, covered in blood. I had several cuts and...

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True friends See Past Your Scars Part 17

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True friends See Past Your Scars Part 16

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It was the summer of 2015. One day, Glenn came to me in a state of excitement. He said, "I have some really good news!" I said, "Oh, my. What is it, Glenn." He said, "My parents got tickets for them and for me to see Motorhead!" I said, "Glenn, that's wonderful!" He said, "Yeah. It really is." On the día he was supposed to leave, he came up to me crying. "Glenn, are tu okay?" I asked. "What's wrong?" He said, "My grandfather just died." I hugged my dear friend and said, "I'm so sorry, Glenn." Later, I insisted on flying to Liverpool with him and his parents. His mother asked, "Are tu sure...

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True friends See Past Your Scars Part 15

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Pretty soon, it was time to start school again. My friends and I were starting the ninth grade, our first año of high school. Glenn and I were particularly nervous. One day, some bullies surrounded Glenn. The ring leader asked, "What's up with the cheesy accent?" He said, "I'm from Liverpool, England." The ring leader said, "Oh, you're from the town of those insects. That explains your trashy haircut. tu should be beaten for that!" I said, "Don't tu dare beat my friend! If tu want to beat up someone, do it to me." The bullies gathered around me. "Autumn, no!" Glenn cried. I said, "I'd rather...

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True friends See Past Your Scars Part 14

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The summer of 2014 was perhaps one of the most touching summers in the eighteen years of my life. I decided that it was time for me to admit to Glenn that I used to practice self-harm. I said, "Glenn, I think it's time tu know the truth about my scars." He asked, "What's the truth?" I said, "Before we met, I was a constant target for bullying." He said, "I know you've been bullied, but I don't think tu told me the details." I said, "Well, the bullies would often abuse me verbally and physically. To cope, I would take a pocket knife, and I cut." This made Glenn cry. He said, "I'm so sorry....

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True friends See Past Your Scars Part 13

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The eighth grade was the worst school año for me. There were a few good parts, but it was mostly bad. First, I had two people who dicho they were my friends betray my trust. There was one girl I told about having endometriosis. I told her about having treatments that failed, so I finally got a hysterectomy over the summer. I told her out of confidence. One day, I went in the bathroom. I found written on one of the stalls, "Autumn is a slut puppy." To make matters worse, other people knew about it. All I heard that día was, "Look! There's the slut puppy!" I fell into Glenn's arms and cried....

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True friends See Past Your Scars Part 12

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The seventh grade had good and bad points. In the beginning of the year, Glenn, Joann, and I were heading to our first class. Suddenly, a boy our age ran into Glenn, and both of them fell to the floor. "Bloody hell!" Glenn exclaimed. "Slow down!" The other boy said, "Oh, I'm so sorry about that." He sounded as if he was out of breath. Glenn suddenly became concerned and asked, "Are tu all right?" The other boy said, "I'm trying to get away from them." A group of bullies started coming in our direction. Glenn got up. He asked, "What are we going to do, Autumn?" I said, "I don't know." Joann...

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True friends See Past Your Scars Part 11

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During the summer, we got a new neighbor. He was a horrible man. He was a gun-slinging, bible-thumping individual if I've ever seen one. He once threatened to kill Glenn because of his haircut. I told him, "If tu kill Glenn, tu better make plans for me to kill you!" He never threatened to kill Glenn after that. I wish I could say that was the worst thing he did. One day, Glenn was visiting with me. I went outside for something, and the nasty neighbor took his shotgun and shot me in the upper thigh. I fell to the ground, and I was in a lot of pain. My aunt and uncle rushed out. My uncle took...

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True friends See Past Your Scars Part 10

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It was January, and the school año picked back up. Glenn was still on crutches, but he was doing better. At one point, we saw some bullies picking on the new kid. Glenn said, "Come on. Let's get those bullies away from her." I said, "Good idea! I can't just stand and watch someone get bullied." The poor girl was already in the floor. The bullies were ready to beat her. Glenn dicho to the bullies, "Back off! I've got crutches, and I'm not afraid to use them!" The bullies backed away. I helped the girl to her feet. "Are tu okay?" I asked. She said, "Yeah. Thanks for standing up for me." I said,...

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True friends See Past Your Scars Part 9

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A few months passed, and Glenn and I were becoming ever closer. One day, we got into an argument. I don't remember why we were arguing. I do remember that I went inicial crying. Later, when I had calmed down, I decided to go over to Glenn's inicial to make up with him. I rang the doorbell, and his mother answered. I said, "I need to talk to Glenn. I want to make up with him." She said, "I'll tell him you're here." A few moments later, she came back and said, "He's gone." I was in shock. "Gone?!" I cried. "What do tu mean gone?" She said, "He's not here. He must've run away." I said, "I'll help you...

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True friends See Past Your Scars Part 8

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Some time passed, and Glenn and I were becoming close friends. One day, we had a bad día at school. The día started out fine, but it ended badly. During the last class of the day, one of my classmates started insulting me. Glenn dicho to her, "You're lucky that boys can't hit girls. If they could, you'd be the first one I'd hit." She said, "But girls can hit boys." He said, "Go ahead. Hit me." She punched him in the mouth. I saw a tooth fly across the room. Glenn put his finger where the tooth was supposed to be. He saw some blood and fainted. I was really scared. Up until then, I had never...