If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away. If he doesn't want you, nothing can make him stay! Stop making excuses for a man and his behaviour. Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save tu from heartache. Stop trying to change yourself for a relationship that's not meant to be. Slower is better.
Never live your life for a man before tu find what makes tu truly happy. If a relationship ends because the man was not treating tu as tu deserve then hell no, tu can't "be friends ". A friend wouldn't mistreat a friend. Don't settle. If tu feel like he is stringing tu along, then he probably is. Don't stay because tu think "it will get better". You'll be mad at yourself years later for staying when things are not better. The only person tu can control in a relationship is you.
Avoid men who've got a bunch of children por a bunch of different women.
He didn't marry them when he got them pregnant, why would he treat tu any differently? Always have your own set of friends separate from his.
Maintain boundaries in how a guy treats you.
If something bothers you, speak up. Never let a man know everything. *He will use it against tu later. tu cannot change a man's behaviour. *Change comes from within. Don't EVER make him feel he is más important than tu are... even if he has más education o in a better job. Do not make him into a quasi-god. He is a man, nothing más nothing less. Never let a man define who tu are.
Never borrow someone else's man.
If he cheated with you, he'll cheat on you. A man will only treat tu the way tu ALLOW him to treat you. NOT All men are dogs. tu should not be the one doing all the bending - compromise is two way street. tu need time to heal between relationships - there is nothing cute about emotional baggage ... deal with your issues before pursuing a new relationship.
Never look for someone to COMPLETE tu - a relationship consists of two WHOLE individuals. Look for someone complimentary - not supplementary. Dating is fun - even if he doesn't turn out to be Mr. Right. Dating should be an opportunity to get to know a person, to decide whether tu are compatible - not a reason to sleep with every new person tu meet. A slutty reputation is not attractive, and hard to live down.
Make him miss tu sometimes - when a man always know where tu are, and you're always readily available to him - he takes it for granted. Never mover into his mother's house. Never co-sign for a man. Don't fully commit to a man who doesn't give tu everything that tu need. *Keep him in your radar but get to know others.
Scared of being alone is what makes a lot of women stay in relationships that are abusive o hurtful: and if a man mistreats you, do not stay in the relationship. tu DO NOT deserve to be treated as someones punching bag, tu are not the one at fault! Don't blame yourself, he came to tu that way. tu can not change him. He needs to seek help for himself, but tu can't force him to do this. When you're gone, he'll miss out on a good thing!!
Don't believe it when he says "no-one finds tu attractive". If he was attracted to tu in the 1st place, just know that he's not the only one. They're all watching you, so tu have a lot of choices. Make the right one.
Ladies take care of your hearts ....
Tsarina *
Never live your life for a man before tu find what makes tu truly happy. If a relationship ends because the man was not treating tu as tu deserve then hell no, tu can't "be friends ". A friend wouldn't mistreat a friend. Don't settle. If tu feel like he is stringing tu along, then he probably is. Don't stay because tu think "it will get better". You'll be mad at yourself years later for staying when things are not better. The only person tu can control in a relationship is you.
Avoid men who've got a bunch of children por a bunch of different women.
He didn't marry them when he got them pregnant, why would he treat tu any differently? Always have your own set of friends separate from his.
Maintain boundaries in how a guy treats you.
If something bothers you, speak up. Never let a man know everything. *He will use it against tu later. tu cannot change a man's behaviour. *Change comes from within. Don't EVER make him feel he is más important than tu are... even if he has más education o in a better job. Do not make him into a quasi-god. He is a man, nothing más nothing less. Never let a man define who tu are.
Never borrow someone else's man.
If he cheated with you, he'll cheat on you. A man will only treat tu the way tu ALLOW him to treat you. NOT All men are dogs. tu should not be the one doing all the bending - compromise is two way street. tu need time to heal between relationships - there is nothing cute about emotional baggage ... deal with your issues before pursuing a new relationship.
Never look for someone to COMPLETE tu - a relationship consists of two WHOLE individuals. Look for someone complimentary - not supplementary. Dating is fun - even if he doesn't turn out to be Mr. Right. Dating should be an opportunity to get to know a person, to decide whether tu are compatible - not a reason to sleep with every new person tu meet. A slutty reputation is not attractive, and hard to live down.
Make him miss tu sometimes - when a man always know where tu are, and you're always readily available to him - he takes it for granted. Never mover into his mother's house. Never co-sign for a man. Don't fully commit to a man who doesn't give tu everything that tu need. *Keep him in your radar but get to know others.
Scared of being alone is what makes a lot of women stay in relationships that are abusive o hurtful: and if a man mistreats you, do not stay in the relationship. tu DO NOT deserve to be treated as someones punching bag, tu are not the one at fault! Don't blame yourself, he came to tu that way. tu can not change him. He needs to seek help for himself, but tu can't force him to do this. When you're gone, he'll miss out on a good thing!!
Don't believe it when he says "no-one finds tu attractive". If he was attracted to tu in the 1st place, just know that he's not the only one. They're all watching you, so tu have a lot of choices. Make the right one.
Ladies take care of your hearts ....
Tsarina *