So, boys, do tu want to know if she likes ya o not o she has a crush on ya o she loves ya o not? If ya do, then read this. And it can clear out your confusion. And
Follow these steps to find out if the girl tu have your corazón set on really likes you.
As a girl in amor myself, I can tell tu important things about other girls too.
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Be bold and initiate a short chat. This will help tu to learn those little things that will come in handy later because everyone loves knowing that someone actually listened to them and cared enough to remember the small details about them. Listen carefully and be attentive to the things she tells tu so that tu will have them for future reference. As tu talk, notice if she gives tu any signs, special words o hints.
*All girls are different. Is she shy o outgoing? Does she act like this around other guys? Look at her body language. Leaning in, uncrossed legs, nervous voice, and dilated pupils (especially), are all signs she likes you.
*A good sign is if she laughs at your stupid, boring jokes too. hola Hey, don't use bad jokes to test o else it might make tu look like a comedy dork!
*She may not be able to look directly at ya eyes. She might smile and laugh a lot cuz' she's worried about giving too much away.
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Watch for signs of flirting. If she's flirting, she may be difficult to read. Gregarious girls may flirt with guys who they consider to be just friends. Uninitiated, this general interaction can sometimes be misconstrued as a crush, so know how she acts around other guys.
*Be aware that some girls have no idea that they're flirting. In this case, she probably likes tu a great deal since her subconscious is letting her body language do the talking.
*Most girls don't like to be obvious. Girls fear rejection too.
*If tu fancy a girl, never make the mistake of "flirting around". If she sees tu putting your arm around another girl o sees another girl hugging you, she will assume that she doesn't mean anything to tu and will stop trying.
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Check for misceláneo hugs, reserved mostly for you. Hugs can be a very openly and permissible affectionate way of getting closer to tu and touching tu without it necessarily compromising her stealthy flirting. In turn, tu can go along with it if tu want, o just act busy like you're late for an appointment and need to rush off.
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Take notice if she "accidentally" bumps into tu más often than what you'd consider the usual.
5
Observe the way in which she looks at you. If she likes you, she will tend to either hold her gaze on tu for a long time o pull away immediately the moment your eyes make contact with hers. Either of these responses could mean that she likes you. If she pulls away quickly, it often means she is nervous o not ready to reveal her true intentions yet, but she still likes you. And if she holds the stare, and tu believe tu see responsiveness o even amor in her eyes, then she is confident and she may make the first move.
*Of course, some girls might just be staring o winding tu up, so don't think she loves tu and wants to get in touch with the real, inner you. Use the context to discern the motive.
Look at her friends. If tu see most of her friends glancing back at tu and smiling o giggling, this probably means that she has told her friends about tu and they're "in the know". This can happen at any age, although mature girls and women friends tend to behave in a slightly más circumspect way, using glances and knowing smiles o nods instead of giggles. In some cases, a friend may actually be bold enough to come and tell tu that her friend likes you.
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Look out for moments where tu can play "rescuing the damsel in distress". If you're outside and the girl tu like is nearby and starts loudly saying "I'm cold!", that's a subtle hint that she wants tu to give her your sweater. This is a very sweet gesture, especially if tu want to mostrar the girl that tu like her. And sometimes a girl will pretend to be really bad at doing something, and say that she can't do it. That is your chance to offer some assistance; be aware that she will most likely be doing this on purpose just to see your reaction and hope that tu will help out.
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Smile at her. Girls tend to like guys who smile, and are happy. Use your natural smile; tu don't want to freak her out. If she smiles back politely, o frowns and looks away, she may be uncomfortable o disinterested. If she returns a soft o big smile and continues to look at you, then it's likely that she's interested. However she reacts, it cannot hurt to keep smiling her way. Eventually she'll get the message that tu find her charming and she may feel able to open up más o at least to tell tu openly that she's either interested o not.
*If she smiles then darts over to the crowd of her friends and hides in the group, then she may be nervous and curious about whether tu know that she likes you.
9
Watch her body language. tu can learn a lot about a girl por observing her body language and it goes well beyond obvious flirting signs into unconscious signals of attraction. There are a lot of signs that will tell tu she's interested. For example, if a girl has her torso turned towards tu in an open manner, this means that she is confident talking with you. If she has a closed body position, namely crossed arms o legs, she may be shy o nervous to talk to tu o she may simply be creating a barrier to ward tu off. Invest in a decent book on body language to help tu learn how to accurately read her.
*Watch for subtle signs in the girl's face––if her eyes are dilating, then she may really like you.
*Look at her lips. If she touches them constantly o bites them, she's probably very interested in you. If her lip quivers slightly when tu look at her, tu can almost be sure she likes you.
10
Notice the little things she does for you. If she's always there for tu when tu need help, even like when tu mention that you're really thirsty and she quickly offers tu a sip from her drink, she might like you. But don't assume that she's into tu only from one experience. Ask her occasionally for small things, like chewing gum o a pen, and notice how she reacts. If she's always ready to offer tu something tu might need, go further and ask her to help tu with something else, like a school, college o work problem. It shouldn't be something really easy to solve, but not too difficult either, as some girls might say that they don't know how to help tu with a más challenging problem. If she's eager to help you, she probably likes you, although if tu use this approach too much o choose tasks that seem too difficult, she may think you're lazy, testing her o even a bit of a nuisance. Don't overdo it; tu don't want to risk her ceasing to like you.
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If tu decide that she does appear to like you, confirmar it por having the courage to go and talk to her. Many girls feel too shy o nervous about what your reaction might be to start a conversation with romantic undertones. Even if she seems like the most confident girl tu know, she may have had a bad experience in the past o simply not be ready to approach tu yet but will be receptive if tu start the conversation first. For más ideas, see How to ask a girl out.
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Finally, but importantly, avoid over-analyzing her behavior. Doing so may result in your becoming obsessed with simply "winning her over", rather than getting to know her as a person. Rather than investing tons of time in determining whether o not she likes you, just take opportunities every now and then to spend time with her and her friends (not excessively though, o tu may appear to have no social life of your own). Basically, get to know her as a person first and foremost and maybe things can go from there later––starting off as a friend gives tu a chance to connect on a más real level. Just make sure to make your intentions relatively clear (via subtle flirting), o else tu may become permanently "friend-zoned".
*sigh* That was pretty long. If tu have read this long, I'm very thankful to you. I'm sure these will tu a lot.
If ya do discover that the girl likes, tu don't neglect her. Take care of her. Cause' it's very hard in this world to find someone who truly loves tu and cares about you. It's a free tip from me :)
Have a nice and loving day! ♥
Follow these steps to find out if the girl tu have your corazón set on really likes you.
As a girl in amor myself, I can tell tu important things about other girls too.
1
Be bold and initiate a short chat. This will help tu to learn those little things that will come in handy later because everyone loves knowing that someone actually listened to them and cared enough to remember the small details about them. Listen carefully and be attentive to the things she tells tu so that tu will have them for future reference. As tu talk, notice if she gives tu any signs, special words o hints.
*All girls are different. Is she shy o outgoing? Does she act like this around other guys? Look at her body language. Leaning in, uncrossed legs, nervous voice, and dilated pupils (especially), are all signs she likes you.
*A good sign is if she laughs at your stupid, boring jokes too. hola Hey, don't use bad jokes to test o else it might make tu look like a comedy dork!
*She may not be able to look directly at ya eyes. She might smile and laugh a lot cuz' she's worried about giving too much away.
2
Watch for signs of flirting. If she's flirting, she may be difficult to read. Gregarious girls may flirt with guys who they consider to be just friends. Uninitiated, this general interaction can sometimes be misconstrued as a crush, so know how she acts around other guys.
*Be aware that some girls have no idea that they're flirting. In this case, she probably likes tu a great deal since her subconscious is letting her body language do the talking.
*Most girls don't like to be obvious. Girls fear rejection too.
*If tu fancy a girl, never make the mistake of "flirting around". If she sees tu putting your arm around another girl o sees another girl hugging you, she will assume that she doesn't mean anything to tu and will stop trying.
3
Check for misceláneo hugs, reserved mostly for you. Hugs can be a very openly and permissible affectionate way of getting closer to tu and touching tu without it necessarily compromising her stealthy flirting. In turn, tu can go along with it if tu want, o just act busy like you're late for an appointment and need to rush off.
4
Take notice if she "accidentally" bumps into tu más often than what you'd consider the usual.
5
Observe the way in which she looks at you. If she likes you, she will tend to either hold her gaze on tu for a long time o pull away immediately the moment your eyes make contact with hers. Either of these responses could mean that she likes you. If she pulls away quickly, it often means she is nervous o not ready to reveal her true intentions yet, but she still likes you. And if she holds the stare, and tu believe tu see responsiveness o even amor in her eyes, then she is confident and she may make the first move.
*Of course, some girls might just be staring o winding tu up, so don't think she loves tu and wants to get in touch with the real, inner you. Use the context to discern the motive.
Look at her friends. If tu see most of her friends glancing back at tu and smiling o giggling, this probably means that she has told her friends about tu and they're "in the know". This can happen at any age, although mature girls and women friends tend to behave in a slightly más circumspect way, using glances and knowing smiles o nods instead of giggles. In some cases, a friend may actually be bold enough to come and tell tu that her friend likes you.
Know if a Girl Likes tu Step 7 Version 3.jpg
7
Look out for moments where tu can play "rescuing the damsel in distress". If you're outside and the girl tu like is nearby and starts loudly saying "I'm cold!", that's a subtle hint that she wants tu to give her your sweater. This is a very sweet gesture, especially if tu want to mostrar the girl that tu like her. And sometimes a girl will pretend to be really bad at doing something, and say that she can't do it. That is your chance to offer some assistance; be aware that she will most likely be doing this on purpose just to see your reaction and hope that tu will help out.
8
Smile at her. Girls tend to like guys who smile, and are happy. Use your natural smile; tu don't want to freak her out. If she smiles back politely, o frowns and looks away, she may be uncomfortable o disinterested. If she returns a soft o big smile and continues to look at you, then it's likely that she's interested. However she reacts, it cannot hurt to keep smiling her way. Eventually she'll get the message that tu find her charming and she may feel able to open up más o at least to tell tu openly that she's either interested o not.
*If she smiles then darts over to the crowd of her friends and hides in the group, then she may be nervous and curious about whether tu know that she likes you.
9
Watch her body language. tu can learn a lot about a girl por observing her body language and it goes well beyond obvious flirting signs into unconscious signals of attraction. There are a lot of signs that will tell tu she's interested. For example, if a girl has her torso turned towards tu in an open manner, this means that she is confident talking with you. If she has a closed body position, namely crossed arms o legs, she may be shy o nervous to talk to tu o she may simply be creating a barrier to ward tu off. Invest in a decent book on body language to help tu learn how to accurately read her.
*Watch for subtle signs in the girl's face––if her eyes are dilating, then she may really like you.
*Look at her lips. If she touches them constantly o bites them, she's probably very interested in you. If her lip quivers slightly when tu look at her, tu can almost be sure she likes you.
10
Notice the little things she does for you. If she's always there for tu when tu need help, even like when tu mention that you're really thirsty and she quickly offers tu a sip from her drink, she might like you. But don't assume that she's into tu only from one experience. Ask her occasionally for small things, like chewing gum o a pen, and notice how she reacts. If she's always ready to offer tu something tu might need, go further and ask her to help tu with something else, like a school, college o work problem. It shouldn't be something really easy to solve, but not too difficult either, as some girls might say that they don't know how to help tu with a más challenging problem. If she's eager to help you, she probably likes you, although if tu use this approach too much o choose tasks that seem too difficult, she may think you're lazy, testing her o even a bit of a nuisance. Don't overdo it; tu don't want to risk her ceasing to like you.
11
If tu decide that she does appear to like you, confirmar it por having the courage to go and talk to her. Many girls feel too shy o nervous about what your reaction might be to start a conversation with romantic undertones. Even if she seems like the most confident girl tu know, she may have had a bad experience in the past o simply not be ready to approach tu yet but will be receptive if tu start the conversation first. For más ideas, see How to ask a girl out.
12
Finally, but importantly, avoid over-analyzing her behavior. Doing so may result in your becoming obsessed with simply "winning her over", rather than getting to know her as a person. Rather than investing tons of time in determining whether o not she likes you, just take opportunities every now and then to spend time with her and her friends (not excessively though, o tu may appear to have no social life of your own). Basically, get to know her as a person first and foremost and maybe things can go from there later––starting off as a friend gives tu a chance to connect on a más real level. Just make sure to make your intentions relatively clear (via subtle flirting), o else tu may become permanently "friend-zoned".
*sigh* That was pretty long. If tu have read this long, I'm very thankful to you. I'm sure these will tu a lot.
If ya do discover that the girl likes, tu don't neglect her. Take care of her. Cause' it's very hard in this world to find someone who truly loves tu and cares about you. It's a free tip from me :)
Have a nice and loving day! ♥