am i the only person who's nevr had a boyfriend?im 14..i just need to know someways on feeling más happy about my self.

everyday i just think about how i came clsoe to being in a relationship....(long story which i will not tell) but now again i am alone.i just feel like nothing's worth it for me.all of my freinds have had/have boyfreinds and ahve their first kiss.me,nothing.i'm chatty,not too ugly (i hope) but there might be something missing..maybe i just dado up trying,and i think is girls which have to try not boys..and im one of those girls who wnat to find someone perfect :(( im not going to post a pic cuz maybe i just get nasty comments..i just need techniques o soemthing to noot feel so depressed -___- thank tu *sigh*
 laspanglish posted hace más de un año
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skillet_luvr said:
Girl, tu are perfectly fine. I'm 16, will be 17 in 2 months, and I have not had a real legit boyfriend. I have not been kissed o been told that someone loved me. I had been told to my face that I'm ugly for like 4 years, 4 grade to 8th. People are douches before they get into high school. Until this year, my sophomore year, I had never been told that I was beautiful. Truth is, Don't give up. tu still have a good 70 years left of your life. Don't give it all away just because no one in your middle school is worth it. Find the stuff that makes tu happy, focus on that. If you're happy with who tu are, other people will be too.
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posted hace más de un año 
taytrain97 said:
Haaah. Tell me you're not serious.

I've met a total of three people online that have actually had boyfriends. And they were all older than you.
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posted hace más de un año 
IntrepidKeris said:
tu need to stop worrying! tu can make yourself sick por that, tu know. I'm 13, going to be 14, and have never had a boyfriend. I'm completely fine. I've been let down por crushes before, but don't let your boyfriend-depression take over your life. The best consejos I can give is try to look in the mirror and smile. Also, think about others besides the ideal boy that amor tu for who tu are. Friends, family, etc.
Smile! :)
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posted hace más de un año 
goofiegirl14 said:
i feel the same way sometimes im 13 nd all my friends have had/have bfs and ik its hard but youll find the right guy for tu someday and itll be worth not having a bf now! i had the same problem with almost being in a relationship and then not and i know how that all feels but just stay strong! (:
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ColieAnne91 said:
i got my first bf when i was 16. first kiss at 16 as well. so tu are fine.
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&& i really doubt your 14 año old friends have bfs that are going to last for very long.
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emilloman said:
Dont worry it will happen someday but no one usually knows when. I havent even had my first boyfriend o kiss yet and everyone else in my grade has and i feel lonely cuz im the only one so i feel your pain girl.
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posted hace más de un año 
xenriquegrl said:
I've never had a boyfriend either but look, tu don't have to worry about that, cuz, as hard as it seems, it can riun your youth. Live it to the fullest before tu think about adult stuff. Don't worry the right one will come. But while waiting, I always say, do the things that tu love!
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jameswilson said:
I felt like this when I was your age - I didn't have a boyfriend til I was 16 and all my friends seemed to have boyfriends. My best friend had been with a guy for like 6 years por the time I got one.

I'm 21 now and have been with someone amazing for 3 years. That girl? She broke up with that dude and is kind of crazy now. Haha

The point is tu don't need to be worried about it yet! You're still so young and have más than enough time to find someone who is right for you. For now try to be happy with the freedom tu have to do what tu want - enjoy school and know that your time will come!
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shivers-zimmy said:
I'm only gonna say this once, suck it up. I say that in the nicest possible way. I've only had one real boyfriend. I know someone who is like 20 and still hasn't kissed anyone. Even if I've never seen you, I know you're not ugly. I personally don't believe in ugly because everyone is so different. It's what's on the inside that counts. And for future refrence, tu don't need to look to find love, o even a boyfriend. It'll come to tu at the right time. Just live your life.

~All my best wishes are now flying your way.
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BigHeart14 said:
im 14 too and i never had i boyfriend, and i dont even thinks that somebody ever liked me -..-
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posted hace más de un año 
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You're 14. There's más important things in life at your age than boys. I didn't have my first legit boyfriend until I was 16. I'm 21 now and haven't dated since I broke up with him. My best friend is my age and has never had a boyfriend. It's okay to be a little nervous about dating/relationships, everyone has jitters when it comes to that. But as long as tu don't let those worries rule your life, you'll be fine. Your life shouldn't revolve around dating.
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Makeupdiva said:
Oh, God, I hate preguntas like these. You're 14 not 40, tu have no reason to be scared because tu have never had a boyfriend. Teenagers don't seem to realize that they have their whole life to have boyfriends o girlfriends. It's not the end of the world.
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posted hace más de un año 
aliselee_lee said:
worrying about boyfriend shouldnt have been the pregunta at all...one should be worrying about the "love"...and at your age tu should be worrying about being successful...boys will come running at tu once they know how successful tu have become in your life and that takes time but believe me it will be worth the wait....
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hamza_7869 said:
i dont mind being your boyfreind

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