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Cinders said:
It sounds to me like you're probably just in a rut. I'm betting there aren't a lot of dating opportunities in your high school. My gay guy friends often complained about that. I have a friend who's still annoyed about being gay because, according to him, it's just so hard to meet great guys that are both gay and datable. But to be honest, as a bisexual, even I have trouble finding a date. Also, tu probably just want to be "normal" sometimes. I say normal in quoations because, tu know, tu already are normal, but tu are a minority. And it's hard not being like everybody else, not knowing how tu fit in. Do tu have any gay friends? That may help tu feel like tu fit in better. No matter how supportive your straight friends are, o how understanding, sometimes it's nice to know that there are other people like tu out there. I recommend chilling out. It's OK to be angry sometimes. Just don't let it make tu do anything ridiculous. And don't get too worked up about it. tu can't change who tu are, right? And I think we all have times when we don't like who we are, regardless of whether we're gay o straight. But yeah, I do think it's a phase. tu have many reasons to be frustrated, and I get that. Whether it's because tu can't get a date, o because tu feel like you're different, it can be upsetting. But just know that there are people out there who feel like that sometimes. Talk to your friends about it, too. Mine are always able to cheer me up.
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