i just got a brand new kitten and it is scared of everything and anything i dont like it being scared but i have no idea what to do ..... any ideas

Well, if it is brand new, tu have to give it some time to get used to you. What I do, is putt it in a room with comida and water and litter and such, and stay in the room with it. Let it get used to you. Don't worry, I know how tu feel.

Give it time. She/He will grow to like you. I have had experience with new kittens, and it hid under everything and jumped onto tall things. tu should give it places to hide, and soon it will grow to amor you. Never get frustrated, and remember: tu are huge compared to it! Imagine what tu would think. Good luck!