This was on Oprah the other day :) lol. I think those people usually go the transgender way if they feel like the other gender they were born as. Also i don't think anyone blames someone for being gay :\

What you're talking about isn't about sexuality, it's about sexual identity. A lot of people who weren't necessarily born intersexuals still feel like they were born into the wrong sex. They are generally described as transexuals, or transgendered.

Intersexuals can often feel uncomfortable with themselves if their parents choose to raise them as a gender they aren't comfortable with, and can often join the transgendered community. Even if intersexuals are comfortable with their assigned gender identity, they can still feel embarrassed or confused about why they aren't like other members of their sex.

But it isn't necessarily about being gay/bi/straight/lesbian. It's about being comfortable in your own skin, with your own sexuality, and creating your own gender identity.

Does that maybe answer your question?

Also, I don't want to speak for all intersexuals. If a transsexual or intersexual reads this and begs to differ, by all means, differ. I am not an expert on this matter in the least.

What do you mean, "think like a girl"? Or "has the brain of a boy"?