she was humiliated by a dork (as much as i love xander he was a dork)it ruined her relationship and her public standing!

She was always pretty mean.

Anyone that has been hurt that badly deserves to be a little bitchy.

she was mean to start with

She gave up basically her whole social life and all her friends for him, and he threw it in her face. That was the most disgusting thing Xander and Willow ever did.

yesssssssssssssssssssssssssssssss

Who would pick no?

She had the complete right! He kissed another girl. Who was also kind of her friend. I was screaming at the t.v for her to forgive him but she had every right not to!

Fuck yeah! Anyone whos ever been in that position knows that! Plus, she had the extra shit of almost dying afterwards! Yikes!

Only to Xander though, being mean to Buffy or people who'd done nothing to her I disagreed with.

Oz managed to forgive Willow. The only difference in their circumstances is that Oz cared less what the other school kids thought of him as a result.